Am i mentally ill ??

[apollo660]

i just want to know if you feel as though no woman, no lady wants you no matter how hard you try when you reach the age of 37 and have yet to have a girlfriend and no woman wants to know me, and nobody wants to know me, whats happening to me, because this is eating inside me and nobody seems to care.

[mammo]

I agree.  Cleanliness and neatness in dressing  plays a big role.  Also, think if maybe you are being cocky, when speaking to others, sometimes we don't realize that we are.  It doesn't take great looks, just being the above, polite, respectful and caring.  Just be a gentleman, women love the little things.  Get people talking about themselves to you by asking questions, and try to be or appear interested in what they are saying and don't argue or debate everything someone says whether you agree or not. Be a good listener, and compliment women, in very small ways, don't overdue the questioning or the compliments, just enough to show you noticed and are interested in them.  If you're shy, people may think you are unapproachable, I went thru this.  You just have to be willing to look people in the eye, smile and make small talk.  Put yourself out there, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

[lost_myself]

Hey Apollo,
I think its normal to feel that way. Especially around that age . Im older than you and things change around this age for guys. I dont know how how you look or dress but i would suggest trying to update how you dress , start working out and watch what you eat. I went thru the same type of thing at about the same age . Started working out eating better. Im in better shape now and look better than when I was 25. Changed up the hair style , updated my clothes . Get lots of attention now, feeel better about myself. All it takes is a lil effort and commitment on your part..Good luck ....message me anytime