I don't think you have to worry about taking them together -- most people with anxiety are prescribed a benzo to take as needed along with an antidepressant. But I would think about it in this light -- post partum depression is a hormonal imbalance, and while antidepressants might make you feel better they just suppress the problem -- they don't make your hormones go back into balance and then you're on antidepressants for the long term. You might think about seeing a practitioner of integrated medicine or a naturopath as there are natural remedies (or close to natural) that might help bring your hormones into balance -- if it works, you'll feel better without needing to go on one of these drugs and it will actually solve the problem. No guarantees, of course, but worth thinking about -- a lot of women have found themselves stuck on antidepressants for hormonal problems and they don't treat that. Good luck whatever you do.
bad reaction you did the right thing . in nuking the med.