Depression *****

[bubzbeauty29]

I really need someone to talk too idk why.this last months i been so depressed i even tought of suicide....n it ***** i have never in my life been like this..... help

[bubzbeauty29]

Thanks for such kind words everyone!!!!

[Hannah_sweg]

I know how you're feeling.
Baby dad problems suck and I'm dealing with the same thing.
My babys dad is uninvolved and doesn't care about me or his son, and has been talking to other girls and I have to sit there and see it all. (We go to the same school)
I feel depressed and sad and alone but I kniw it will get better once my son is born. I know I dont feel like things will get better but I KNOW they will. You just gotta keep telling yourself that it is true.
I keep feeling like I'll be alone forever, I feel worthless.
But it not true for either of us. We just picked the wrong guys.
And the hormones reallyyyyy dont help. If your depression does last till after just know that it will not be as bad.
But I know that soothing words can only help for a secind when you feel like that.
So just find some things that make you happy even if only temporarily.
For example I watch netflix till it stops distracting my mimd from my sadness. Then I listen to a few songs till they stoo helping, then I read inspiring quotes, then I draw or paint, then I come on this apl, then I go to facebook, instagram, tumblr, then I step outside, then I take a long bath or shower, then I write in my journal, then I play video games or watch youtube.
And even though all those things dont fix it, they distract me for at least a little bit and that is still so helpful.i dont even say tge word suicide because I feel like that's as bad as saying I wanna kill my baby, but I have felt like doing it. And if I wasnt pregnant I may have. But then again if I wasnt pregnant things wouldnt be this way so in reality I wouldnt. Just look at it that way when you think about it.

[specialmom]

I am really sorry to hear this.  Depression is very hard and when pregnant, it can be even worse.  You are exactly right, the hormones can push mild depression to a new level.  There's criteria that doctors use to diagnose depression that often includes things like feeling this way every day for at least two weeks.  The mention of suicide in your post really worries me.  Honey, that is something to absolutely discuss with your doctor.  For some ladies, it is better to treat the depression and suicidal thoughts than to not.  They weight risks over benefits of medication and sometimes benefit wins out!!  But either way, your doctor needs to know how you are feeling.  they'll want to monitor you for all the way until after the baby when so many women have a hard time with post partum (again, TREATABLE).

If the idea of suicide gets stronger, PLEASE call a hotline number.  Reach out.  It's not worth it and you are carrying your baby, so please get help if you need it.

Life can be so hard it seems.  But then the clouds can clear and things seem brighter.  I hope this happens for you soon hon.  Hang in there, peace and hugs

[Autumn252]

Just work on creating a bond between you and your unborn..believe me you won't even be worried about your ex..I'm going through something similar ..and I just started paying attention to my unborn and he started to fade out of my mind ..try it..try talking to your baby..rubbing your belly..reading to him /her..let em listen to music..

[vickytarr]

I went threw this while pregnant with my daughter its a time where your getting tired both mentally and physically many moms are so busy thinking how are things going to work its a normal anxiety but the hormones make it crazy plus seeing your baby daddy who not helping almost everyday im sure is not helping at all but hopefully it will pass in a few days if not be sure to talk to your doc

[Autumn252]

It may be your hormones.. Just stick it out..you'll be happy that you did when you see your Lil ones precious face.

[bubzbeauty29]

Idk i honestly dont know idk if is because of the pregnancy n hormones this are my last months...n well my baby daddy is been out of my life already but i still see him from a far since his my neighbor. ..nd he has a new chick. I been alone thru this pregnancy n i been fine but now.is.starting to hit me really hard

[Autumn252]

I've been down that road..and at the last minute I happened to think about who would be hurt..and I didn't do it..at that point I was 13..I'm glad I didn't..! Life gets better..this is only a phase.

[Autumn252]

Why are you so depressed! Always remember you have a lot to live for..think about those who would be hurt if you were to leave this world.