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I am a lesbian and I feel noting but depression

I feel so helpless and just want to commit suicide just to put out my pains.....I can't even handle a relationship successful without my partner lashing out horrible words at me and calling me all sorts of name for my misbehaviour and all she does is threaten to leave me
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1551327 tn?1514045867
It is always challenging.  Anything in life worth having is not easy to obtain.  I wish you two the best of luck.  
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@bubulous thanks so much for your advise....In all honesty She is very loving caring and adoring. I sometimes pity her condition too cause she has so much to chew. But just her verbal abuse each time I react in jealousy sends me off balance. I knw she loves me and I love her too....but dealing with the circumstances around our relationship is our greatest challenge. ...
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@bubulous thanks so much for your advise....In all honesty She is very loving caring and adoring. I sometimes pity her condition too cause she has so much to chew. But just her verbal abuse each time I react in jealousy sends me off balance. I knw she loves me and I love her too....but dealing with the circumstances around our relationship is our greatest challenge. ...
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363281 tn?1643235611
Suicide is never the answer, see a good doctor, and stop allowing yourself to be in an abusive situation.

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1551327 tn?1514045867
If she really doesn't care about you then you should not take the verbal abuse.  If she does then don't let your insecurities push her away.  Love is painful sometimes.  Intense love is just that way.  If it were easy than I venture that you would not be interested.  I only say that because I used to be that way.  I could have a pick of many easy relationships but I always chose the ones that were more intense and in doing so I created a dysfunctional pattern of breaking hearts and having mine broken.  A relationship should be give and take and if you are not getting out of it what you are putting into it then you need to re-evaluate the foundation that this relationship was built on.
Ask yourself unbiased questions and be honest with yourself.  Where do you see this relationship going?
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Many times I feel she is cheating on me or playing smart! She says she loves me and not her children's father but i just feel am a stop gap most of the time.....
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She is bi and each time I react jealously she calls me names.....I am just lost and drunken in love
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1551327 tn?1514045867
Yes don't give up.  I know it sounds cliché but she is not worth it if she cannot except you the way you are.  Don't let yourself dwindle in the dark place where you will definitely become isolated from not only love but the opportunity for a new relationship.
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7486852 tn?1410352184
Maybe you're just with the wrong girl, don't give up! Go to ER.
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480448 tn?1426948538
I'm sorry you're hurting, but suicide isn't the answer.  PLEASE get yourself immediate help, go to the nearest ER if you have to.

Relationship stuff is tough.  Can you elaborate a bit on the issues you're having with your GF?  You state that she threatens to leave over your misbehavior?  What exactly have you done that would be considered misbehaving?  Sometimes, talking that kind of stuff through helps you to feel better.

Let us know how you're doing okay?
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