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2146732 tn?1418849107

Is this part of it?

I get upset when I think my fiancé is mad at me he's usually not but I'll think he is do I'll get upset is that part of depression? Also I just noticed that his sons mom called my phone & I'm upset about that also.am I wrong?
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I know it must be very hard. Maybe try harder to not get upset when he gets on FB and things like that. He did ask first, right? It takes a long time to gain that trust back after it's been broken. I really do recommend couples counseling before you get married. That is such a huge step to make in your life. It's really worth it to get everything sorted out before you do get married.
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2146732 tn?1418849107
I'm already doing that! We're engaged to be married. I'm taking baby steps. I don't want my trust to be played with again. It's hard very hard but I'm trying.
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That's what's going on then. He has taken away your trust. Of course you're going to be mad and upset. But, if you want the relationship to work then you have to give him another chance and try your best to trust him. If this can't be done you might want to think about if the relationship is worth staying in. Maybe couples counseling would help the two of you.
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2146732 tn?1418849107
Yes in the past he has.
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So there are trust issues going on. That can cause a lot of stress. Has your fiance ever done anything to not make you trust him?
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2146732 tn?1418849107
Not really,just I get upset about every little thing. Fast to get mad feels like the whole world is against me at times. Idk I woke up with an attitude this morning because he was on fb in the middle of the night&he left his page up. I found nothing wrong&he asked me if he could do it but im still mad about it. I have trust issues&i just dont know what to do? I don't know if it's just stress that I'm bringing on myself or what?
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It sounds like stress to me. Are you having any other symptoms other than getting upset?
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