Aa
can any one help
I am 32 year old. Married twice. Two beautiful girls to my first husband. A loveable son to my second.
My 2nd marrage lasted a month. Then i seperated. He took my boy on his 3rd birthday. I have had so many problems with finding work. So my new boy friend and i moved to get work, but this ment i had to leave my kids behind. I now live 1200km away from my children. I miss them so much. I hate my job,i hate myself for everything. I don't think i should be in my kids lives as i am so unstable. i don't want to hurt any more. I think every day about doing myself in.
PLEASE HELP
My 2nd marrage lasted a month. Then i seperated. He took my boy on his 3rd birthday. I have had so many problems with finding work. So my new boy friend and i moved to get work, but this ment i had to leave my kids behind. I now live 1200km away from my children. I miss them so much. I hate my job,i hate myself for everything. I don't think i should be in my kids lives as i am so unstable. i don't want to hurt any more. I think every day about doing myself in.
PLEASE HELP
E-Talks on “the cure to social phobia, OCD and depression”
Purpose: To help those who have been suffering from social phobia, OCD and depression, gain better understanding about themselves and the situation they’ve been through, as well as the forum to be more informative and diversified.
Speaker: Mr.Hei Xi, the founder of Hei Xi Psychological Counseling Center in Shang Hai, who has graduated from psychological department of Chinese Medical University , as well as suffered from social phobia, OCD and depression himself for more than 10 years .
Highlights:
Mr. Hei Xi makes use of oriental philosophy therapy, such as Buddhism, Taoism, Zen, Morita Therapy. By going through those philosophy, he realized that such self-low-esteem complex can never be removed forcibly. “But when we fully accept it, just let it be, it will disappear magically”. (Counter Therapy)
Based on Mr. Hei Xi’s more than 10 years’ research findings and experiences gained from the treatment process, he came up with his own so-called Easten or Natural Therapy. For instance, the treatment of Social Phobia, which includes 2 principles:
“ Principle 1:
The correction of low self-esteem (inferiority complex), and the build-up of self-confidence, namely “total acceptance of yourself”, In Eastern Philosophy Therapy, it is called “Original Form” or “to do nothing”, it is the root-removing principle.
Principle 2:
Behavioral Therapy, Exposure Therapy, Desensitization Therapy and NLP etc. A large amount of social practice can quickly remove the symptoms. It is symptom-removing principle.”
“The difference between eastern therapy and western therapy is like the difference between Chinese medication and western medication.”
Time: GMT 12:00-2:00 PM, December 10th, 2007 (Monday)
Platform: This forum will be held through a software called Team Speak, which is a quality, scalable application which enables people to speak with one another over the Internet.
Go to http://www.goteamspeak.com/, download the free client software, and connect to server’s address at: ts1.teamspeak.com.cn:8770
If you’re interested to participate, or for further information, please don’t hesitate to contact us at:
MSN: heixi_madeline @ hotmail.com
Skype: zaraliu
Purpose: To help those who have been suffering from social phobia, OCD and depression, gain better understanding about themselves and the situation they’ve been through, as well as the forum to be more informative and diversified.
Speaker: Mr.Hei Xi, the founder of Hei Xi Psychological Counseling Center in Shang Hai, who has graduated from psychological department of Chinese Medical University , as well as suffered from social phobia, OCD and depression himself for more than 10 years .
Highlights:
Mr. Hei Xi makes use of oriental philosophy therapy, such as Buddhism, Taoism, Zen, Morita Therapy. By going through those philosophy, he realized that such self-low-esteem complex can never be removed forcibly. “But when we fully accept it, just let it be, it will disappear magically”. (Counter Therapy)
Based on Mr. Hei Xi’s more than 10 years’ research findings and experiences gained from the treatment process, he came up with his own so-called Easten or Natural Therapy. For instance, the treatment of Social Phobia, which includes 2 principles:
“ Principle 1:
The correction of low self-esteem (inferiority complex), and the build-up of self-confidence, namely “total acceptance of yourself”, In Eastern Philosophy Therapy, it is called “Original Form” or “to do nothing”, it is the root-removing principle.
Principle 2:
Behavioral Therapy, Exposure Therapy, Desensitization Therapy and NLP etc. A large amount of social practice can quickly remove the symptoms. It is symptom-removing principle.”
“The difference between eastern therapy and western therapy is like the difference between Chinese medication and western medication.”
Time: GMT 12:00-2:00 PM, December 10th, 2007 (Monday)
Platform: This forum will be held through a software called Team Speak, which is a quality, scalable application which enables people to speak with one another over the Internet.
Go to http://www.goteamspeak.com/, download the free client software, and connect to server’s address at: ts1.teamspeak.com.cn:8770
If you’re interested to participate, or for further information, please don’t hesitate to contact us at:
MSN: heixi_madeline @ hotmail.com
Skype: zaraliu
Thank you too all. Knowing i can vent my feelings does help.
I know my children miss me too.
I spoke to the girls the other night. My youngest daughter(7years) told me they both told their father they wanted to move back home to me. He just told them they are not aloud.
Every time i ring my son (4years) he says your back mummy. You pick me up on monday, want to come to your place now.
This breaks my heart because i know they would be happier with me. But the law system sucks in Australia. Since this year the law states the fathers have equal right to the children.
Doesn't matter what the children want. As long as the stats are half the system is working and the law is happy. But my children and i are not.
I know my children miss me too.
I spoke to the girls the other night. My youngest daughter(7years) told me they both told their father they wanted to move back home to me. He just told them they are not aloud.
Every time i ring my son (4years) he says your back mummy. You pick me up on monday, want to come to your place now.
This breaks my heart because i know they would be happier with me. But the law system sucks in Australia. Since this year the law states the fathers have equal right to the children.
Doesn't matter what the children want. As long as the stats are half the system is working and the law is happy. But my children and i are not.
How do you know if having you around would be good or bad for your children? You might feel like a bad influence or inadequate for them, but maybe they're missing you badly and want you with them more than anything! And maybe having you around would make a difference in their life. Having a mother's love is one of the most, if not the most important thing in a child's life. And probably, being with them would help you feel better about yourself too, it would help your self-esteem and your overall mental balance.
I wish you strength and good luck.
I wish you strength and good luck.
MAN I FEEL REAL BAD FOR YOU. MY HEART HURTS FOR YOU. LIFE IS TO DARN HARD! I CAN BEARLY GET BY DAY TO DAY MYSELF. DOESNT SEEM TO LET UP. JUST TELL HER YOU LOVE HER EVERYTIME YOU SEE HER OR TALK TO HER, EVERYTIME. SHE'LL KNOW THAT YOU LOVE HER. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES WE WISH WE COULD TAKE BACK I GOT ALOT OF THEM, BIG ONES. TRY TO FORGIVE YOURSELF. THEN THEY WILL TOO.
GOD BLESS YOU
GOD BLESS YOU
it breaks my heart when i talk to my kids.
my eldest daughter doesn't talk to me very much, it feels as though she thinks i don't love her any more. my son says "hi mum your back, picking me up on monday, i want to come to your place".
i ring them as oftern as i can, but it doesn't make it any easyer.
my eldest daughter doesn't talk to me very much, it feels as though she thinks i don't love her any more. my son says "hi mum your back, picking me up on monday, i want to come to your place".
i ring them as oftern as i can, but it doesn't make it any easyer.
Hi!
I am not sure about Law in your country, in US what the Judge orders is how it is no exceptions or you have to go back to court. You could find answers at the website
www.findlaw.com. Possibly at your library of law in your providence, you need to get information from a local source.
I have never experienced this type of thing. Good Luck!!!
Still listening,
Crochetya
I am not sure about Law in your country, in US what the Judge orders is how it is no exceptions or you have to go back to court. You could find answers at the website
www.findlaw.com. Possibly at your library of law in your providence, you need to get information from a local source.
I have never experienced this type of thing. Good Luck!!!
Still listening,
Crochetya
our custody orders stated i had full custody(of my girls) but the father had acess to them every second weekend. so if i was to move it was only within a 2hours radius of him. there was no work within that area. i am a good mum, i've never use any substances never bet them.
the system here in australia is different to the rest of the world, as from this year. the farthers have equal right to the children. so i get screwed again. my second husband has full custody of my little boy just turned 4.
the system here in australia is different to the rest of the world, as from this year. the farthers have equal right to the children. so i get screwed again. my second husband has full custody of my little boy just turned 4.
HI THIS IS ALICE, NOT TO BE TOO PERSONAL BUT HOW DID HE GET YOUR KIDS? I KNOW THE LAW CAUSE I BEEN THROUGH A CUSTODY BATTLE. THEY ALWAYS GIVE THEM TO THE MOTHER, UNLESS YOUR NOT PROVIDING A STABLE EVINVORNMENT FOR THEM. WHICH IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU WAS OR COULD OF. A MOTHER MUST HAVE HER CHILDREN IN HER LIFE OR SOMETHING INSIDE HER DIES. NO MAN CAN EVER FILL, OR JOB, OR PERFECT HOUSE. I COULD PROBABLY HELP YOU FIND AWAY, CAUSE I DO KNOW THE LAW. IF YOU WANT ME TO TRY.
GOD BLESS YOU AND LIKE YOU SAID 'DON'T GIVE UP'
GOD BLESS YOU AND LIKE YOU SAID 'DON'T GIVE UP'
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the Depression Community
15 signs that it’s more than just the blues
Discover the common symptoms of and treatment options for depression.
We've got five strategies to foster happiness in your everyday life.
Don’t let the winter chill send your smile into deep hibernation. Try these 10 mood-boosting tips to get your happy back
A list of national and international resources and hotlines to help connect you to needed health and medical services.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
