compulsive lier on money

[subus]

why is my wife keep on lieieng on money?  She always borrow from her friends big amount of money just to show that she has money in the bank. When it's time for her friends to get the money back she gets angry with her friends and having a lot of alibis.  When I learned it, I paid for it just for the sake of our family and my love for her.  Right we only have little friends coz they are all stranged to us coz of her.  PLEASE HELP! What do I do. She did it so many times. Does she need a psychiatrist?

[jo929]

next time she borrows tell her to pay it herself and dont pay it for her or she will keep it up and it will just get worse if you keep on paying back what she borrows. you are just letting her know that she can have her way   jo

[Venora Moonwind]

She really needs to get into therapy to get help. there are some deep seated issues she needs to address and the therapy will help  get this out.Love Venora

[subus]

no, she used it and some of it she alibied it as her commisioned from being a loan originator. She is so angry with her friends everytime I learned it.  She is not angry at me but she is really threatening her freinds and so on.  She does not listen to me.

[fuzzy882]

Wow, what can I say?????  How long has this been going on?  U say she's not using the money, just showing it's there in the bank?  I wonder for what reason.  It probably wouldn't be a bad idea to get her some help. These people that she borrow's from are awful generious I would say.   There must be an underlining problem as to WHY??  You hear of this with gamblers but just to show it's in the bank and not spend it???

Good Luck subus, keep us posted.