stressed and depressed

I almost 7 months pregnant and I am 15 years old. I've been having alot of issues with the father he doesn't wanna be with me and is engaged with another girl but I can't seem to forget about him I want my baby to have parents that are together and happy. I thought about giving the baby up for adoption but the father said if I do that then to just give the baby to him. My last visit with the doctor he told me I lost 3 pounds and I think the cause of it is stress and depression everytime I think about him I just start to cry I don't know what to do and there is nobody I can talk to about this.
What should I do?

[Venora Moonwind]

Just because you may be with the father doesnt mean you would be a happy family . especially when the father doessnt want  to be with you. get to a xounselor and talk this through and ask yourself what it is you truly want.  adoption could be the answer.I myself gave up  my baby for adoption because I was unable to care for her. I ggave to a family that took wonderful care and gave her what she needed. My therapist told me later that I loved her enough to give her up to loving parents that could give her   the life I couldnt. you are only 15 and you have the whole world and your life ahead of you. that is way too young to be a parent and give a child what they need.Of course you will the one who ultimatly decides what to do. If you need to talk just messagem and I will listen.
Love Venora

[moonflower13]

Venora is right that being with the baby's father wouldn't necessarily make you or the baby happy. If he doesn't want to be with you, then you must let him go and eventually and patiently forget about him, I know it's easier said than done, but eventually hanging on to your memories of him will only make you unhappy and give you a lot of pain. As to what to do about the baby, it's very hard to give advice, and it's something way too personal and important for anyone else to tell you what to do, and this pretty much includes the father. If anything, if you should decide to give the baby up for adoption, I think it's better to go the established way and let the government decide what family the baby should go to rather than give him/her to the father; I think it would be better for everyone if the baby didn't go to someone you know personally, I think it should be anonymous, plus you have a negative background with the father, and I think eventually it would be for the worse.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do, you're in my prayers.