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Until two years ago my brother never abused any substancesDrug abuse. In fact he rarely drank at all and never took anything other than booze, no pot or pills or anything like that. Then, after a business setback, he became depressed and started drinking to the point where he was falling down and hurting himself.
His HMO insisted on treating him as an alcoholic rather than as a depressed person. He was sent to group therapy for substanceDrug abuse abusers. He has mostly stopped drinking, with an very occasional lapse, but is still severely depressed. I think he should be in a depression program instead of an alcoholismAlcoholism Alcoholism - resources program. The HMO insists that he be completely sober before treating the depression, but it seems to me that if the depression was given priority then the sobriety would follow.
He is too depressed to do anything proactive for himself. Is there anything I can do to intervene with the HMO?
i dont know that you will be able to intervene much because of patient privacy laws but you can certainly support him, which it sounds like you are already doing. thats great as he needs you, even when he doesnt want to talk, just knowing someone cares makes a big difference.
i hope things start to improve soon for your brother and you, take care louise