My wife has a recurring, small vaginal sore that has been diagnosed as herpes by several doctors
for years.
One doctor tested a sample from the sore (active at time of exam) that was negative for herpes, but said it must be herpes. No subsequent pap or exam has been at the time the sore was active. Subsequent diagnoses have been from verbal descriptions.
My wife is 40, non menopausal, in excellent overall health.
Her first outbreak was when she was 23. No fever, no swollen glands, no blisters. Just a single small lesion that looked like an abrasion, opened into a small (less than 1/4") open sore and healed in a few days.
This single sore recurs about every one or two months, sometimes more. It is usually in the same location, right rear of the vaginal opening/internal lip, but sometimes on the opposite side of the vagina or a slightly different spot near the usual location. No similar sores appear anywhere else.
Recurrences seem to be triggered by stress (in the complete absence of intercourse) or intercourse. This soreness and frequent vaginal itching have reduced our sexual activity to once or twice per month, so outbreaks without sexual activity have been fairly common.
In the recurring events, the single sore still starts with the appearance of a small abrasion, no blister, opens into an open sore and heals with 5 to 7 days.
She has never had discolored or foul smelling vaginal discharge or odor. She has experienced infrequent yeast infections. She has had occasional outbreaks of oral herpes since she was a small child.
In 17 years of unprotected exposure, I have never had classic herpes symptoms, oral or genital, or these symptoms.
Can her recurring lesions be herpes?
If not, what might it be?
Several doctors have diagnosed this as herpes, so I think she will need some help leading a doctor in another direction if there is one.