Cold Sore transmission

[jhfIII]

Dr. Rockoff,

      Over the years, I have been very, very careful when I have a cold sore not to kiss anyone until it has healed completely. The other day I kissed my wife (once) as I left for work. About an hour later I had an itchy, tingling feeling on my lip and knew I was getting a cold sore - I did shortly thereafter. I have heard all kinds of things dealing with asymptomatic shedding and being contagious a day before you actually get a cold sore etc. and was wondering if there is any validity to this? I am worried I might have given my wife the cold sore virus through that one kiss. Thank you for your answer.

                                    Henry

[Alan Rockoff, MD]

It's possible, but still not likely.  Over the years, this has probably happened before--she's likely to already have been exposed to the virus.  In any case, there's nothing you can or need to do about it now.  I wouldn't be too concerned.  The incubation period is 5-10 days or so, by the way, so if it hasn't happened by then, you're in the clear.

Best.

Dr. Rockoff

[20may]

I recently had sex with someone and about a week later had bumps appear on my penis and I had sore throat.  After consulting with the doctor I was quickly diagnosed with Herpes before I even dropped my paints.  I went to the lab and gave blood to be tested for AID’s, syphilis and I think Chlamydia and swabbed for something else. All results came back negative.   I was given medicine for herpes. The bumps that were already getting smaller so it was hard to tell if the medicine was worked or not.  Now, a month later, I feel and see bumps starting to form on my upper-lip.  I have noticed a bump on the backside of my penis head and when I urinate a small amount of pee drips form my penis.  I have no pain in any area but my lip and penis have a wrinkly appearance almost concealing the small bumps.   What can you suggest before I see a new DOC.  could it be warts?

[jhfIII]

Thanks Dr. Rockoff - I guess I was under the assumption that you are contagious when you have the blisters and not before they appear, and then I read about this asymptomatic shedding which kind of scared me (after all it was just one quick kiss). It has been 5 days since I kissed her and no cold sore.

                                     Henry