Flaky eyelid- what is this?

About last month I noticed my right eyelid was a little dry.  I didn't think it was a big deal and put Vaseline or Nivea on it every now and then.  But it hasn't gone away!!  In fact now its worse!

Its dry with some flakes.  The skin is a little red. I'm a little concerned because its been so long.  So I began putting Vaseline on a more regular basis, but it began to hurt a little so I stopped.  Putting a warm towel on it soothes me and gets rid of the flakes for a few hours, but its not getting rid of the damn thing.  I have no idea what this is despite my internet searches.

I don't wear make up.  And this dry flaky spot on my eyelid is a good distance away from my eyelashes and lash line.

Can someone out there please help me with this?  Anything!  Even a recommended remedy, please!

[Lbliny]

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