All my life I have been very responsible sexually, as I am 22 and have only had 1 prev. partner(who I know didn't have anything), and have always used protection.I have always been very scared of getting a girl pregnant or catching a STD. This semester I have started dating a new girl. She was upfront with me that she has had 6 partners and is only 18. She says she has always used protection too, and got tested for STD's in Feb(everything neg). Since then, she dated another guy,and only had sex a few time, used protection, , he didn't sleep around, and got checked frequently.(She is confident he didn't have anything)Anyway, we ended up in bed, but used protection.She did grind herself against my pubic bone though. Anyway, 3 weeks later(we didn't have sex again), to the day, a painless white-head appeared about a 1/2 inch below my pubic hair line. When it popped, a small amount of fluid and blood came out. Needless to say, I freaked out. I read a bunch of stuff on the internet, which just scared me more. I got examined, and the doctor said it was just a pimple, not herpes. It faded to a pink spot and healed just like a pimple(didn't form sores or blisters). My health center only does herpes cultures, not the blood test.They did not test me for herpes. All my other STD tests came back negative. (so did my girlfriend). My girlfriend has promised me several times that she doesn't have anything, and has never had symptoms of anything. Anyway, 10 days later, I felt a burning or irriating sensation in the crease of my leg. There was a single red spot when I checked. I went to the ER, and the doctor said maybe folliculitis,and didn't think it wasn't herpes.The next day, the same thing happened in the other crease of my leg. I went back and saw another doctor. He laughed at me when I suggested herpes, and also said folliculits and prescribed 2 antibiotics and anxiety medicine. Anyway, 2 days later, I had another red spotin my pubic hair, on the other side as the previous one, but a bit closer to my penis(about an inch away from the base).This one too caused a (not severe)burning/chaffed sensation, but wasn't a constant sensation, it would come and go. I put some OTC antibiotic cream on it, but now it seems to have turned into larger red area. Anyway,all the doctors have said no on my spots(they would be VERY painful),and that it is not nearly as widespread as the internet says.Anyway what Ive read and my girlfriends past have scared me worse than I ever been scared in my life.I have had nothing show up on my penis on testicles.I also do get pimples on my legs(have for all my life) which form whiteheads sometimes, but don't hurt. My questions: If this is folliculits, why is it just now showing up in my groin and never before, and why can I feel them? How can I stop them? How will I ever be sure I don't have herpes(all the doctors have said the blood test is un-reliable). I have been under A LOT of stress, andam very afraid this is a mild outbreak of herpe