Hello,
To begin, I am an active 25 year old heterosexual male who works out daily (runs 20 miles a week and weight trains) and eats a balanced diet - I have not had many sexual partners
and had a full blood (HIV, etc) test last January that returned negative. Since then, I have had sex with only two women, both times protected with nonoxynol-9 condoms. I was treated last January for what was thought to be 'burned out condyloma', or genital warts at the base of my penis. I have not had any recurrance of these warts, and there is still the possibility that these may not have been warts(?).
About 6 months ago, I had sex with one of the women mentioned above. Again, protected using a condom. Now, about 3 months ago I began experiencing somewhat of an itch in my groin area - I had something similar the summer prior, where the itching got really bad between my scrotum and legs. I used a yeast infection cream, and the itch went away. I assume that was some type of fungal infection?
So, back to my current situation. This itch was localized under
my scrotum, right where the scrotal skin begins. No sores or blisters, just a really bad, dry, persistent itch. Foolishly, I would at times itch it to relieve it, which only inflammed it again. My scrotum would feel very warm and red, as well. The itching would be particularly bad right as I woke in the morning, after sleeping. I also had slight itching and irritation again in the crease between my leg and groin area. I even noticed very small, what appeared to be insect bites down there, but they never itched too bad nor did they blister.
There have been no sores, lesions, or blisters whatsoever on my
penis. I have not had any pain in urination, or abdominal pain to my knowledge.
I do have somewhat of a discoloration of the skin in that area, which I believe may be 'dermatitis' or something of that nature, as it has been that way for many years.
So I read some posts on your site, after looking online and scaring myself to death. Things pointed towards Herpes Simplex - 2, and I became very stressed out, and still am. I read about the dormancy, the mild symptoms, how outbreaks can last for weeks - how 1 in 5 adults have it, etc. I also heard rumors
about the aforementioned girl, which sank me deeper into concern.
However, I also read many posts on your site suggesting ecezema. I purchased some 2% Hydrocortisone cream, and the itching went away in a day. Used it for a week, and it is practically all gone, save for an occasional itch and a dry 'cracked'sensation. My scrotum still will feel warm and red, but
no bad itching like before.
To be honest, I am scared to go to a doctor to hear the bad news. Furthermore,I am hesitant to move forward or become more intimate in relationships for fear of 'harming' my partner. I say I should go get a blood test, since no lesions are really present - then I read that these aren't that accurate.
Can you offer any advice?
Thanks
Worried Guy