I was diagnosed with Molluscum Contagiam (hopefully that is spelled right) about six months ago. I was so worried that it was herpes but I was tested for it by blood and it was negative. They are so horrible looking and embarrassing that I don't even want to show myself down there when having intercourse :-( My fiance has it a little bit, but not nearly as bad as me. I've never had anything like this before it is really depressing. It's down in my pubic area and I have just one of them on my belly. They are all of a sudden getting bigger, like they are trying to pop, I see white heads on top of them and I am just wondering if this is a good thing or a bad thing. I am also wondering if this has to do with my fiance being a red head? Help!