No.
A small bump is not a sign of herpes. It is probably a cyst or blocked follicle. If you pick at one of these, it will of course bleed and look pink for a while.
Herpes doesn't always look like a blister, but it presents as groups of things, not a single one.
Why not ask your partner whether he had herpes testing while being worked up. If there's any ambiguity, have him get tested again--if he is negative for herpes, he could hardly give it to you. And get yourself checked and, if appropriate, tested as well. Then you can get on with things without worrying.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff