and red bumps start to come up and and replaced by dark grey area, it started spreading and the area around it is surrounded by red bumps and still spreading and itchy and i'm pretty sure it's not STD, help
and it should also be ruled out. Diagnosis of scabies is made by scraping the skin and viewing the material under a microscope to see the characteristic mite or eggs.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.