Although I understand your question, it is not easy to answer. I can't tell from your description whether the changes you describe are just normal variants. Permanent scalp changes from a hair style seem most unlikely.
Whatever the case, it remains a question as to whether anything can or even should be done about it. Before undergoing any further plastic surgery, I suggest you consult a dermatologist. If you learn--as I believe you will--that there is nothing inherently wrong with your physical characteristics, you are going to have to deal with your unhappiness about the way you look. This may involves psychological counnseling, but may also involve consultation with hairdressers and cosmetologists to learn if you can modify your "look" to your satisfaction (or your satisfaction to your look.)
Basically, you need help to come to terms with yourself. Surgery seems unlikely to be the answer.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff
My intentions are not to DO something about about this but rather to understand and inquire about what is going on with my scalp. You are right about coming to terms with myself, etc and I am happy to say I have succesfully dealt with THAT aspect of this. I want to know is my scalp in a healing process? Is the pain on the top of my head when I brush my hair eventually going to go away? Are there dermatologists that specialize in the scalp (rather than just a general dermatologist) and what are they called? What would really what would help me if you could answer this specific question:
What happens (scientifically and technically speaking - forget about the scalp story) to the skin if for a prolonged period of time the skin is under forced tension. Like being pulled up one direction. What does the dermis do? Can the connections with the underlying areolar tissue etc be shifted. Given the characteristics of skin (which I am not extreamly familiar with) what would likely happen if the skin was stress like that?
Just give me the best answer/description you can - I'll go look words up in the anatomy & physiology book if I dont understand them. Thank you so much.
Dr. Rockoff