Rash and flaking after sex with a condom

I just recently became sexually active - she said she was clean and had been tested a few weeks ago.
She provided the condom and the day after my first sexual experience,  my penis was sore and sensitive, and burned a little. The second day it burned all over my penis and base/top of scrotum.  I was kind of freaking out and thought that maybe she had herpes and I got herpes.  Even though we used a condom, I did have my fingers inside her at one point and touched my penis without a condom afterwards.  Is it possible to get herpes that way?  Anyway the rash continued for a couple weeks and after that it seemed to be back to normal.  Then I used some astroglide once it cleared up, which I have used in the past and had no bad reactions to but then the rash seemed to come back.  I had used condoms a few times before while masturbating, so don't think I am allergic to latex.  Could it be the lubricate?  And why the reaction to Astroglide when no reaction before.

[sared]

get tested

[shorty62]

it sounds like it could be "rugburn" But you should get tested just to make sure