If tiyr urethra is indeed narrowed, then you are quite right to consult a urologist, whethee or not this has any connection with your other symptoms.
Dr. Rockoff
Thankyou for the reply. Yes I am concerned about the appearance of my penis.The narrowing of the urethra is clear not imagined, my urinary stream has been greatly reduced.I will more than likely be refered to a urologist.As for the recurring red irritation marks on the glans?---I figured that was a potential sign of herpes even without blister formation.This has been going on for a year..the irritation comes and goes but the stream of urine has been declining all along.
Thankyou for your time.
The upshot of your posting is that you have become obsessed with appearance of your penis out of fear that you have herpes. Nothing in your description suggests herpes to me. I can't make much out of the burning sensations or your feeling that the urethra is narrowed. You've been tested for urinary infection, and when those tests come back negative, I think you should stop worrying about that.
As to the redness and slight inflammation, you need to see whatever doctor it will take to convince you once and for all that this is not a symptom of herpes, so you can stop obsessing and get on with your life. Please find a male dermatologist or STD clinician, express your concerns, and you should be fine.
Take care.
Dr. Rockoff