Can I email you a picture for better diagnosis? After the flare ups a few days later the skin will subside and the redness lessens. I can show you a picture of it right after rough friction.
Hello,
Thanks for posting your query.
First of all it can be simply skin irritation caused by friction or dermatitis skin. For the same I suggest you to stop applying anything, use mild soaps like Dove, use lubrication during masturbation or intercourse, wear cotton clothes and use plain Vaseline.
If the symptoms do not improve then the possibilities which need to be ruled out are balanitis ( due to fungal infection ) or Zoon’s balanitis which is a form of chronic inflammation of the glans penis and foreskin, which affects middle-aged to elderly men who have not been circumcised.
What you need to do is consult a dermatologist and get a KOH examination of the skin scrapings of the penis and a biopsy of small skin sample done if the symptoms persist. KOH examination of the area will clarify whether it is balanitis due to fungal infection or not.
Hope that this information helps and hope that you will get better soon.
Wishing you good health.