I'm not sure why you think her notes are inaccurate. In infants this condition is usually not serious and self-limiting, just as your doctors say. Treatment is rarely needed, and severe symptoms from mast cell release are rare.
If the school (at age 3??) requires an epi-pen, fine--no harm in having one, even if it's unlikely to be needed. The same would be true for a list of drugs to avoid, although aspirin, codeine, morphine, alcohol, and anticholinergics should be easy to avoid in such a young child.
I gather from your question, though, that you don't entirely trust your doctors. That is your right, of course, but if so you ought to either have a straight talk with them or get another opinion from someone you're more comfortable with. Medically, your child should be fine.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff
I am also concerned because my doctor has never discussed a need to carry an epi-pen. Is everyone else doing this? We do have her blood work checked every year though. So far, so good. Mastokids.org is a wonderful website and support site as well.
I am a 39 year old woman who has had "spots" all of my life! I have 2 boys, one of them has spots, one of them does not. He does have the urticaria internally though. My son with the spots has only a mild case. I have a more severe case, it never changed when I reached puberty. I have had my spots since I was 2. I have had a very normal life. I do have an occasional drink, no problems. I do have a very sensitive head, if I get hit in the head I will get a very severe headache. I get hives easily too. Both of my children have allergies, I don't know if they can be attributed to the Urticaria or not, we live in AZ, we all have allergies. I never had a problem getting a boyfriend, I did have to suffer through the no stop questions. My mother used to dress me in shirts that went up to my throat. She only wanted to protect me from the comments. I know that kids would have found something else to tease me about if it wasn't the spots. That is just how kids are. I have suffered through a lot of personal torture. I was ashamed of my appearance, I found out it never really bothered anyone though. I wear a bikini and I wear tank tops too. You just have to understand that is how some people are, they will gawk and that is that. As for medical conditions effected by the urticaria. I have not had any. Yes I was told all of the precautions, I have not had one of those things happen to me. I have had a few times where I think I may have had a histimine build up and suffered through a very severe headache. I can remember times I have had headaches so bad that my lips would turn purple and you could see my heart beating through the skin in my lips. I also have probably over a dozen raised spots. These are very sensitive and thankfully they are in a place that my hair hides them. What I really want to stress is that my life if great, this is not a handicap. Don't worry your children will be fine, they will adjust and they will be happy. They will most likely be better off than most kids. They will have learned how to find the best of themselves early in life. One thing I do suggest is to NOT try to protect them from the comments, that only makes us feel like we are not normal. Look around everyone has something, ours just happens to be spots. It really isn't that bad.