It is hard to interpret what you're describing. I also would expect your face to be clear this far into treatment. One thing you say that makes me suspicious is, "i touch my afce alot and think about it all the time." I have to wonder whether you have some blotching or dryness that you are manipulating into something more visible by touching or rubbing the area.
Even if you are still breaking out, you should stop at 6 months, because the Accutane keeps working long after you stop. So if you stop the treatment and leave your face alone (!!), you should be fine, at least for the next months to years.
If you can't talk to your dermatologist, perhaps you should find another.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff