, but it hurt too badly to be a piple... Now I'm worried its a herpe. But my partner doesnt carry the virus. I shaved about 4 days ago, so theres a chance it could be an ingrown
Hello,
You are right because it can be either: an infected hair follicle or herpes sore. However since it appeared after shaving, it is more likely to be an ingrown hair. Keep the area clean and apply some warm compresses and topical antiseptics. Also use an antibacterial soap or mild soap like dove. Avoid any kind of cosmetics. Topical antibiotics such as mupirocin or neomycin containing ointment are also useful. In case the symptoms persist then oral antibiotics may be needed. Please consult a dermatologist in that case.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.