Itching without a rash sounds like anxiety, not herpes. I suggest you apply a lotion containing camphor-menthol or diphenhydramine (no Rx needed--ask your druggist) to help the itch. If you get a visible rash, show your doctor. Meantime, don't worry, and don't scratch. And don't ask your friend.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff
One way to find out for sure if you have herpes is to have herpes Type-1 and Type-2 antibody testing using type specific serology. Mertz et al showed that up to 70% of transmission may result from sexual contact during periods of asymptomatic viral shedding. A majority of patients with genital herpes experience asymptomatic viral shedding which often occurs independent of outbreaks. Patients who are seropositive with no reported history of genital herpes shed virus asymptomatically at a rate similar to patients with a reported history of outbreaks (3.0% vs 2.7%, respectively according to Wald A, Zeh J, Selke S, et al.) Up to 90% of those infected are unaware they have the virus that causes genital herpes. (according to Fleming DT, McQuillan GM, Johnson RE, et al.) Lastly, since herpes is not part of the screening process, and doctors can’t always see the virus, it’s probably a good idea to ask for some testing… it certainly can’t hurt. If anything you’ll be able to rule everything out better. I know a little bit about this because I have had genital herpes for almost nine years and am aware of what is not always readily available to the patient.
Sincerely,
Angela Stevens
I find it morally bankrupt for someone, in spite of suspecting they are infected with herpes, to avoid getting tested so that they can cop out with, "Gosh, I didn't know I had that." If a partner does get infected on down the road. How would they feel about that?
Trigger, just look on the extra, high-quality advice you have gotten here as being a bonus at no extra charge. If you suspect half-truths, there are lots of online resources where you can check it against information from peer-reviewed medical sources.
Good luck and have a nice day.
Peace
The point is doctors, like Dr. Rockoff, are the experts. We should listen to them. They went to medical school and have much experience in the matter. All these web sites are either selling drugs and want you to start taking them or they are trying to stop the spread of herpies (herpes) by scare techniques or they just want to cover themselves legally.
See you doctor, trust there judgment, and go on with your life.
Thanks
You are right... we really should listen to the experts. Reading peer reviewed publications can help to set the record straight. It's not unreasonable for folks to request proper testing from the experts so they can safely rule out herpes. Not everything going on with skin related symptoms is herpes. But, if a person suspects that they might have herpes and they aren't sure if they have ever been tested... what's the harm in ruling it out by getting the proper testing done? It's clearly not possible to get a diagnosis over the internet. Proper testing is the only way to receive an accurate diagnosis.
For the folks that do have herpes… some have signs and symptoms of an outbreak and others do not. Everybody’s experiences are there own and even the experts can not always see a sexually transmitted disease with their eyes. That is why many experts insist on proper testing so they can rule out herpes without any question. Each expert is entitled to do what they feel is best for their patient. It’s the patient’s responsibility to determine if they are receiving the best possible care.
Sincerely,
Angela Stevens