I don't know where you're getting your information, but herpes gingivostomatitis generally heals in 10-14 days. Once the sores are dried over, contagion is no longer an issue. Herpes can appear in saliva after minor cold sores, not just acute gingivostomatitis, but isn't a factor in contagion--if it were, everyone who has cold sores (and there are a lot of them(, would be spreading herpes all over the place all the time, and they don't. I advise you to plan on touching the newborn with pleasure and comfort. If you're still uneasy, feel free to consult the doctor who diagnosed and treated the gingivostomatitis.
Take care.
Dr. Rockoff
Terri Warren
Thanks very much.
Terri