just looking for advice

[Eric9586]

id like to start off whith an apoligy becouse this will be a long post but ill start in the begining i have never in my life had unprotected sex back about a year ago i had a girlfrend cheet on me we had only slept together twice while this went on by the sumer i had 3 bups form in my genital are i panicked diagnosed myself and froze them off whith a compound w kit they were about an inch and a half from the base of me penis about oct nov i had them apear on my stomich and i started over examining my genitals i know anxioty plays a huge role in this to i went to the drs he was not realy concerend about everything but i insisted on definat answeres he sent me to a uroligest he also had no huge concerend he sergicly removed the 3 lumps on my stomic in dec they were moliscome contagiosum when the biopsy came back he pescribed Condylox gel to aply to any new lumps i have had to others aper which he said was going to hapin becouse the other lumps head been around for so long i have a line of other white skin marks raisd just bearly in a line about half way around my my penis shaft there toreds the botom the uroligest said he dident think there was a concern about them but also dident ofer a garente he said if they grew into something aply the gel well thay havent grown but out of nerves and stupidety i put the gel on one of them it got pink and pufy ok so my questions
1 molisiscom what are the concerens of this sexualy?
2 what is ur idea of the whit bumps?
3 im concerend about hpv and warts do u se anything that resembles all of this
4 is this normal behavier for moliscom how long till its safe to have sex
5 is a dermatoligest the dr to see about all of this
6 i also have a wart on a finger on eather hand can this transfer sexualy

im paranoid im now daiting the woman of my dreams im scared im going to give her something i have not had sex since april and cleared all other std tests in dec but she is a virgin so if she gets something its from me and i dont want to hurt her my head has been redy to explode for a cople of months now im i going overbore please help i apreciat anything you do and thank you greaty in advance

[Alan Rockoff, MD]

These do sound like molluscum, and of course the biopsy proved that.  Molluscum can be transmitted sexually, but often isn't--it just comes.  All you have to do is get it treated, but don't do it yourself, mainly because it's hard to tell on yourself whether a spot is molluscum or just another bump or a leftover red spot from previous treatments that would go away if you left it alone.  This has nothing to do with the wart on your finger.  Yes, a dermatologist is the right doctor to see, who can tell you about all your spots and treat the ones that need treatment.  But this is nothing to worry about, and should have no bearing on your relationship.

The white spots are probably cysts that appear where you say you have them and don't mean anything but you probably never looked closely enough to notice them before.  The dermatologist can clear up that question too.

Take care.

Dr. Rockoff

[Eric9586]

may i also ad that when erect it is verry hared to eaven find these white spots they are almost gone to the eye sight when the skin streches dident know if that was inportant

[whatisthis123]

Hi, for last few years i have had these 2 white marks on the head of my penis. Also to go along with this a white cracked rind around  the rim of my foreskin which can split when erect. Also when foreskin is peeled back their is a funny smell can anyone help so i  can resolve this problem.

[lizziecee]

Hi - sorry, but you can't tag on a question to the Dermatologist, you have to start your own thread and pay $16. You might try posting on the unmoderated support forum and see if anyone can help you with your query.