Nope, doean't sound like herpes at all, or any other STD.
Itching by itself usually means little if it's chronic and all over. Welts when yoiu scratch are called dermographia (skin wirting) and are normal--you cause cells in your skin called mast cells to release histamine when you scratch, and that makes the skin welt up.
All this would have been just a minor annoyyance, until you got the bumps on the penis. These too are probably normal variants you happened to notice, but because they made you anxious, so in your own words, "the itching on my body that I was so used to by then really picked up in intensity." This anxiety over the normal has just kept feeding itself.
Do yourself a favor. Go to the drugstore and pick up some Sarna lotion (non Rx), apply it every time you want to itch to calm down the skin, and make an appointment so a skin doctor can look at your bumps and tell you you're OK. It's worth one visit.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff
It is worse at night to the point that it wakes us both up - him from unbearable itching and me from him squirming. The rash can pop up in a matter of just a few minutes but doesn't seem connected to any specific event or exposure. We have cycled through 30 changes in first laundry soap, then body soap (choosing Dove), examined his diet, and seen an allergist. (The allergist suggested several Claritin type meds that just make him sleepy, so he can't take them).
We finally made it in to an exclusive dermatologist and we thought that there would be some relief finally on the horizon.
Instead, there are 5 patients booked for the 8:30 appointment slot. The honorable doctor spends about 6 minutes with the husband, calls him Mr. Smith for the first 3 minutes (my husband having the last name of Jones, this was not a good omen), then tells him to use Dove soap and Head and Shoulders shampoo for the next two weeks then come back. "That's the problem with you people - you go changing things willy nilly and you don't stick with anything long enough to actually find a solution."
Now the husband is depressed, and nothing personal here, but I am sure that you must realize by now how difficult it is to convince a man to see a physician - now I am really afraid that I am never going to be able to get him to see another. He's been itching like this for a year as our primary care physician has been taking shots in the dark, treating him for allergies, mites, low cholesterol (which it seems he did not actually have after a series of follow-up bloodwork performed by another lab).
We have changed personal and laundry soaps, eliminated fabric softener, called in service master to reduce any dustmites, soaked him in Aveeno nightly, and he still wakes about every two hours reaching for the lotion bottle in an attempt to find some sort of relief from the itching. He scratches until it bleeds, especially at night, and never seems to have more than a couple of hours respite from it. It is affecting our personal relationship and his attitude/outlook on life to a growing degree. (I can't say I would feel any differently - it is affecting mine both out of concern and the effect of living with a squirmy man)
Please Doc, how do we find a doctor that can even help him? We got this one highly recommended from several sources - and the doc wouldn't even listen to him.
try http://www.candidaforum.com/forum/default.asp?b=1 for more information