severe razor burn/ ingrown hair. depressed

I've been dealing with razor burn ever since the age of 18. I really think that it is due to the accutane that i took for my acne when i was 16 years old.
After taking the accutane, i noticed i started growing alot of facial hair, and now i have extremely thick facial hair all over my face and neck. I've had laser hair removal done on my neck (about 12 sessions), and even though some of the hair in my neck areas has been removed, i still need to shave the area and I still get razor bumps/ingrown hairs. My face always feels so dry, and its become such a problem now that I am starting to become depressed after trying to deal with the problem for the past 8 years. Even when i try to grow a beard, after about 14 days of growing it out, the hairs are so thick that my face starts hurting tremendously from the hairs. I need help. Is there any sort of product that can help with the facial hair inflammation? Oh, and when i have to shave, there is no way i can only shave in the grain of the hair. It doesnt cut off 1/2 the hairs unless i go against the grain. Its such a horrible problem, its really starting to take its toll on me.
Any advice would be appreciated.

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Dude, you're not Try this:

Before you begin to shave, check the way your beard hairs grow. The general rule is to shave in the direction of the beard growth. Usually the beard grows downward toward your neck and upwards from the base of your neck. Either shave in the shower or use a warm towel to help soften the beard.

Starting with a clean face is paramount to getting a close shave. Apply glycolic facial cleanser or algae facial cleanser to an already warm damp skin. Always use warm water as it helps soften the beard and prepares the skin for shaving. Hot water may dehydrate your skin so be sure to use warm water. Cleansers buff away dirt and oil which allows your razor to glide more easily against the skin. Rinse off with warm water and leave wet.

Next, you can apply a thin layer of the pre-shave oil to help soften the beard and add more glide to the razor. Shave cream or shave gel is applied over the oil in an even thin layer. Make sure you replace your razor after three or four uses. If you have a heavier beard change your razor more frequently.

Throughout your shave use your free hand to keep your skin taut and as flat as possible. This will help you avoid cuts and nicks and give you an even closer shave. Use short strokes starting at the side burns, cheeks and neck. Finish with your lip and chin so the shave cream or gel can soften these heavier whiskers.

Frequently rinse your razor under warm water to remove product build up and hair. This keeps the blade sharp and clean throughout the shave.

Rinse your face with cool water and gently pat your face dry. Do not rub.

Finish your shave by applying After Shave Balm or Razor Burn Repair to help keep your skin soft and hydrated. Soothes and calms razor burn.

Anthony makes good shaving products. Also, if you have sensitive skin or if you're African-American and you're using a razor with 3 or 4 blades you may want to downsize. Too many blades remove more skin, so people with sensitive skin will experience more irritation. Try switching to a 2 blade or single blade razor and never shave against the grain. You should also only be applying mild pressure against your skin with the razor. And if you have thick hair you should be trimming your hair with an electric razor prior to shaving. Preferably a day or two before.

Now if none of this helps your condition try switching to an electric razor. They usually don't cause irritation/bumps but your shave wont be as close. Most people wont notice the difference though. Only you will while you're looking at yourself in the mirror when you're an inch from it.

Hope this helps.