small pimple like bumps on my vagina

ok, well i had sex with my ex boyfreind, and he told me he had sex with ALOT of girls. so like after the 4th or 5th time we had sex these small little bumps popped out of nowhere on the lips of my vagina, the clitoral hood,and the perineum. they hurt when i wiped myself with tissue or if they were touched. they didnt look like blisters, just small bumps. a week after they appeared they didn't completly dissapear, but they weren't painful anymore. then shortly after that i got with my recent boyfreiind and had sex with him about 2 or 3 times. and he told me that he had small bumps on the head of his penis. i dont think he said they hurt. but they were small like mine. his dissapeard in about a week or two, and so did mine. it's been 4 to 5 months since that happened. they havent come back or anything, they just dissapeared. so do i have herpes? or was it just a reaction to having too much sex? i told my ex boyfreind about the bumps, and i told him they weren't there until i had sex with him for the 5th time. he asked if i had blisters and i told him no. i dont kno if he ever got tested for aids or herpes or anything. i have no insurence to get it checked out, otherwise i would have already known the answers to my questions. please help me out, im kinda desperate to kno the answer to these questions.

[Bhupinder Kaur, MD]

Hello,
From the symptoms these small red bumps can be due to friction rub during intercourse or folliculitis. They do not sound like herpes. Herpes presents as blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. The blisters break, leaving tender ulcers (sores) that may take two to four weeks to heal the first time they occur. Typically, another outbreak can appear weeks or months after the first, but it almost always is less severe and shorter than the first outbreak.

I would suggest you to keep an eye for any more bumps and also get a complete STD panel investigations. In future please indulge in safe sex. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing. Warm regards.

[overthinker7]

please use condoms untill your sure that is the person you want to spend your like with or they get tested. i have a few close friends with std's and its not pretty. its better to be safe than sorry. & i dont think its herpes that you have but it could be something else, it best if you go get that checked out.