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The other incentive you could try is that he will FEEL BETTER when his glucose levels are normal. He will have more energy, and for most teens this is something they want to have happen.
When I was in my teens my parents always reminded me to check my blood sugar and by that age, it started to annoy me. I felt like I was old enough to control my own diabetes and remember to check my own blood sugar. I do realize that it was done out of love and concern as I am sure is the case with you. I am not sure if it is because your son is at an age where kids are more defiant. I am sorry that he seems to be ashamed and embarrassed to have diabetes. This is obviously not something he chose. It is also very sad for me to hear he says he doesn't care if he has complications or problems. I guess my reply more addresses his behavior rather than your concern with hyperglycemia without ketones. Is there any sort of support groups in your area that specifically cater to teens with diabetes? Has he gone to any education classes? Does his doctor have any suggestions?
I am sorry to make this so long and more about myself, I just wanted to share my story with you. I have been living with type 1 diabetes for 14.5 years (I am 29 years old now). I graduated from high school, college, have been happily married for over 3 years and have 2 amazing children with no complications from my diabetes. While diabetes has been a huge part of my life, I have tried not to let it define who I am as a person. I sincerely hope that he realizes that he needs to take care of himself soon for his own health and your piece of mind. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. Julie