I heartily endorse the comments of Zuelula and Waverider.
You need a medical evaluation from an M.D.
You are experiencing medical problems that no forum or chat board will resolve. Waiting and/or procrastinating will not make it go away, only makes your problem worse. Go see your doctor now before you end up in a hospital.
You say bladder but then you say #2. Your bladder controls urine. People usually mean defecate or " poop" when they say #2. If you are urinating frequently that may be a sign of diabetes, but defecating would have nothing to do with it. You have posted on a diabetes forum. You might try a forum related to the digestive system or stomach or if it feels like a problem you need help with, talk to your doctor.