DOES HE LOVE ME

okay so its been pretty crazy. i got with this guy who had a gf and than he told me he was going to dump her for me and than he got her pregnant and i was like wow and i was going to leave him but i didnt cuz he told me he dont want her or the baby and it was an accident so she got kicked out of her house cuz she was preg and she had no where to go so she went to his house where he was living with his parents and she been living there and so than he finally told me that he dumped her but than i find out that he didnt but he keeps saying he did and i heard they were going to get a house together but he told me that he isnt and he swore he dont love her he loves me and he just made me fall in love with him i just cant let him go! i dont know what to do hellpp does he really love me? or is he lying to me

[becks715]

I'm going to be blunt.

He doesn't love you.  If he did he wouldn't have gotten that girl pregnant, or been dating her at the same time as you - which he obviously was if she's pregnant now.  

He is playing you - he doesn't want a committment with you - whether he wants the child or not he now will have one so he has committed to that instead.  

The faster you get away from him the better - he's definately not worth it.  Move on and fast.

[blondie111]

I totally agree with becks715 he is playing games with you, he justs wants a bit on the side and thats you, sorry for being harsh, but you will get hurt real bad if you don't leave now, and how do you know that her getting pregnant wasnt planned, you have only his word for that, think about it, has anything you told you so far come true about the both of you??

[mayflowers]

Are you a child writing this?  No punctuation, bad grammar, nothing makes any sense.  It's all one big run-on sentence. It's like a kid made this story up.  On the small chance that this a real post with real people,  you're all a piece of work and I feel sorry, very sorry, for that baby.

[blondie111]

Don't  you think that was a bit harsh, but because she did use bad grammer does'nt make her out to be lying?

[mayflowers]

It looks like a child wrote this.  I've been reading these things for 6 months.

[blondie111]

Really, fair enough you might be right, because i do know there were kids on this before, we will find out soon i guess....

[babyprayers]

go back and look at what you said!!!! you did not care that he was with someone else because he said he was gonna leave her anyway!! mistake number 1, leave first and prove you dont love her, thats what he should have done, then he got her pregnant and told you he dont want her or the baby and was going to dump her. HELLO, what makes you think your any different then the girlfriend, do yourself a favor and have more self respect, find your self someone who is single and worthwhile, and while your at it, And I do not want to be mean BUT.. do not be a homewrecker, I do not know how old you are but dont be the other woman. Do not do that to another human being, You do not know what this poor girl is being told by the slime that says he loves you and not her, maybe he is telling her she is the only one, after all, he is having sex with her right???

[dove3053]

How old are you? I ask because it doesn't matter. No matter what age someone is they can be fooled. Dump this guy and move on with your life. I know you want to believe him. Once again dump him. Just because it's the right thing to do doesn't make it any easier.

Dove