I m thinking about leaving my husband and really need some one to talk to about it.

I am just so tired of not being heard.  I am tired of every time that I try to have a conversation with him, he only wants to point out the things that I do wrong and if I point out something he did wrong he gets angry.  I am over all of it and I really need to talk this out.

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I don't  know if my opinion right or not, I'm a wife of 17 yrs marriage and still doing fine.
I really believe that if a problem occured between spouse, it must be caused by both party. I see that you have a bad comunication with your husband and that is happening to almost every marriage. Love is the biggest asset in marriage, if you both still have it, you have to fight for your marriage. I think the situation right now is tense for a nice conversation with your husband, so you have to cool it down first. Take a step back . Start to praise your husband for little thing he do-or he doesnt : ). Dont use high tone when talking to him. It will take time, but I'm sure he will appreciate what your doing eventually. Then you can find a right time to talk. I always think-by nature- it's the wife side to make sure that our marriage still in the right track.
Wish you the best

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I'd say that mine isn't always smooth and I do understand your feeling about leaving your husband. When I got really angry at him, I too felt that I was not love him anymore . But it's because our heart is covered by anger, once the anger is gone, love is still there, even stronger. You  can looked back and be grateful . I keep remind myself - as long as my husband faithful to me- I will make this marriage work. When my husband angry at me with no particular reason I considered him having distress at work and throw it on  me-and usually it's true. When it's over, we talk it over.
If you leave, your current problem may be gone but you will always find another problem .