Is my wife cheating

[Calvy]

I was doing the laundry today for my wife and I happened to notice that one of her black dresses had white stains on the inside of the back part of her dress. For example the stain was on the back of her dress on the inside where her  bum would be.. A lot of things have gone through my mind and I have even thought about buying a semen tester but without going into too much detail even if she had sex with another guy, the stains my not necessarily be semen..

Anyways, I am not an expert at this so can anyone please give me any ideas?

[teko]

Sorry, this is sad! My husband told me a woman he used to date was so jealous that she would pull his underwear out of his dirty clothes hamper and smell them to test for seman stains. He said it was so bad he told her to get the hell out and stay out, and said he never did cheat on her.

If you suspect your wife of cheating, assume she is and divorce her. Lowering yourself to this kind of behavior is just, well, sad.  Sorry.

[lor662]

Im pretty sure,you can find other ways to find out if she is haveing an affair,,since some of us here have gone through it,,maybe you should just keep a close eye on her daily routine,,im pretty sure there would be more sighns ,than just a dress with some dirt on it

[lost_myself]

dont mean to be too explicit but sweat (salt stains ) are white as well and when your sitting your *** sweats .. its possible that its nothing..i agree with lor662.. keep an eye out for more telling signs. All you have now is (possibly)  proof of a sweaty ***..dont screw up your relationship over things until you have something more definitive and more over dont get paranoid a start reading more into other things you are seing ...good luck.

[iam1butterfly]

Under any circumstances, testing for semen sounds like a desperate reach...
But, hypothetically, let's say that the stains did test positive... how would you know
that you weren't the source of the stain? And, if the test shows negative results, what else are you going to test?
You may want to consider seeking counseling instead of a test kit.

[BoHager]

The first thing that went through my mind was , Is your wifes name Monica and does she smoke cigars? And Bill would know about the DNA testing. To be fair to your wife it could be a billion and one things. She could have even maybe just maybeee sat on something ( not sexual ). My advice seek counseling and quit watching Bill Clinton on the history TV. Good luck man hope it all turns out for the best! I'll have to side with the women on this one.

[jo929]

why would you think your wife is cheating unless something has happened that you are not telling, it would seem you do not trust your wife, and if you have to go as far as testing something, you really are not a trusting person,if you have concrete evedence then ask her, but stains could be anything  jo

[Sara_Jesse]

I can't believe you're just assuming this. At least you have actually saw them having sex and you have proof that's semen, this is just stupid. There are millions of different things that "white stain" could be. Unless there were others occurrences in the past, this doesn't mean squat. I'm sorry for being rude, but it's true.

[jewelscute1]

Do you even know the basics of a woman's anatomy?  I have been accused of such and is was just my discharge.....  What did you do?  If nothing, maybe you have a paranoia issue going on....