Is this wrong?

Ok here it goes.... I met this guy online, he seem so nice, well spoken and all that ****... I don't trust men easily but this one had all the right words, he seemed to just be 'THE ONE'.. Anyways after deciding that yes i would enter into a relationship , i suggested that he removed his profile and I would do the same. We did and everything was going great, He came to see me and we had what i thought was a wonderful time, NOT ONCE did he mention a family nor a wife and trust me I asked. I was even saying wow i am so lucky because a man with a great job, great respect for woman how come he wasn't taken?  Anyways after our  meeting, all of a sudden he called me one day and said ' HIS WIFE FOUND OUT'' I can tell you, i'm a black girl and i know after hearing those words my skin became white, I was like where the hell did this wife come from? I had asked you so many times and u said no. He said one thing lead to another and he knew if he had told me i wouldn't want anything to do with him, I was so upset, if i had caught him I am sure i would be locked away... He sent me a long email saying he loved me but it would be best that we cut all tide, I wasn't upset at that because he's married! HA, you see after a couple months i decided to put back up my profile on the site and WHO did i see online? That *******, he was still there chatting up yound girls with his lies .. I was so pissed because at that time i realized that It's a pratice for him to  cheat with girls he met online. I was blinded by rage and i sent a message to him saying I don't know the wife, but i do know he doesn't deserve her! I also had pictures of him that he had sent to me so i went on DON'TDATEHIMGRIL and i made a profile with his pic saying that he's a cheater and that he's married and just looking for a good time... My question is why do men take vows and then break them? Why are men such DOGS? Was i wrong for posting up a profile of him? Give me ur honest views....

[Mitch82]

I think you did the right thing, those that are looking for a proper relationship could be blind sided by him, he needs to stop what he is doing, he is lying to his wife and to others.  

[Toni22]

thanks for the reply....

[teko]

I say absolutely you did the right thing.  Predators of all kinds lurk online, please be very careful.  C how easy it is to get into trouble?  Even with face to face contact aside from the computer, when you meet someone, always have em checked out before getting serious and delving in.  We live in a very dangerous society.

[Toni22]

So true... he had me fooled and I always thought that I was a good judge of character....Anyways His name is listed on don'tdatehim.com and whenever someone types his name that will come up, so I might have gotten fooled but at least i know i helped at least one female from falling for his lies... Thanks for the response...

[heatherlynn22]

post him on DontDateHimGirl . com.

[mami1323]

I posted the girl that had an affair with my fiance on dontdatethis.com also.  I think people should be outed by their bad behavior.  I should put my fiance up on there as well....lol.  But I think you did the right thing.  I wish there was a way you could lead his wife to the site.  She should know who she is dealing with.

[Toni22]

I posted this him on there already.. lol... and i sent him a link to his profile.... They need to be taught a lesson man..

[heatherlynn22]

lol.....if i had pictures of all my cheating, womanizing, scumbag exes....i'd post every single one of them on that site! lol. cheaters suck. they should be called out on it. too bad the local papers don't do cheating ads. lol. pay $20 out the cheater. bet he'd NEVER get another date.

[Toni22]

Yeah i thought of the same thing... He is nasty and with all these STD AND HIV esp. he is putting her at risk, because i remember the condom breaking at least one while we were you know!.. He is still on there to this day and i know if he was outed he would lose so much. Theses men need to be taught a lesson, My current boyfriend laughed when i told him what i did, he said he won't cheat so i won't have to make him a profile lol....

[Toni22]

lol... yeah so true but you don't need a picture, just their name and address.. you can still get them... lol anytime someone even googles the name it pops right up.. They are such animals and the thing is they can bring you a std or something worst. They only care for themselves and that's why it's good to teach them a lesson they won't forget it...

[allets]

All you girls are GREAT! lol

I have no idea why some men do what they do, and they say woman are hard to understand! WTF!!!!

I am glad you did what you did Toni22, cos i am usually the one who ends up with this type of guy, and if given a warning from another female, deffo would kick him out of touch.
I agree about the wife not knowing. I was the wife not knowing, and when i did find out, the hardest part was all the people who knew he was cheating and NEVER said a word to me. (although deffo my ex not the man you were with as we are in differant parts of the world but the sentiment the same)

I hope you brush yourself off girl, and get back on that horse, cos not all men are like that, and a strong woman like you deserves a strong man (hope he is cute with  killa buttocks and a 6 pack though lol) cos he will be out there, he is just busy with his career thats all.
wish you all the luck you need & all the love you want girl.
Allets.

[Toni22]

lol.. thanks.. I met another and he's all u described and more lol.. I guess god was removing the fake to make room for the real... I no longer even think about that *** but i know he will remember me as he knows i put his his picture and name up there and it will always be on the internet.. lol I know one his wife will find it... She's a teacher i heard so all she has to do is google lol... Anyways when they cheat you just kick them to the curb, because they are putting you at risk for god knows what.. They will get there's one day.. I know this...

[sammy73]

You are quite right to post it.  Also, did you tell the dating website?  I guess different websites may have different standards, but I'm sure no website wants someone like that on their site, it'll give them a bad name, so he should get blocked from that too.

Glad you've met someone better and found out that not all men are a***holes, just a small few who give the rest of us a bad name...

[Toni22]

I didn't think of mentioning it to the site as i know they will say that they aren't responible for what their members do as long as it's not illegal.... Being a nasty, cheating married jerk is bad but sadly not illegal lol.. But thanks Sammy I know all men aren't  like that and the ones that are i don't call them men (they are yet to reach that status)