Just broke-up, but she call me and won't respond when I text her.

[tcben]

I recently went through a break up with a woman that I was off and on seeing for 8 months, which is long for me. Just recently I was advised that enough is enough because of all of the arguments we've had, especially when I drink shots. I said maybe some time down the road, we can rekindle things after I go to therapy and get better, to which she replied "I wish you the best". I've learned recently that she may be back with her ex who treated her badly.. never gave affection.. and a bad last fight. I've gone 2 weeks without talking to her and even destroyed my phone, but on Friday she tried calling me on Facebook. I didn't answer as I was not online. After thinking long and hard, I gave in and asked on FB today why she called and if she wants to speak to me about something. The message was shown as "seen" 15 minutes later and here it is 4 hours later and no response. What to do?

[specialmom]

I guess I feel whomever gave you OR her advice that enough is enough was pretty wise..  I think not all relationships are meant to be.  If you act funky when you've had a few shots and still have them . . .  that says a lot.  And if you've been a jerk and she's had enough, that is probably a good call on her part.  doesn't mean you are a bad person--  just means that she would like to search elsewhere for a person that she wouldn't have this problem with.  It's healthy.  And telling someone 'maybe' down the road is kind of keeping them dangling and can feel unfair.  She's being clear.  She's out of this now.  I think you need to accept it and move on.  It's hard--  but time DOES heal.  good luck

[Emmabby101]

Hey. I'm on the same boat with u here. It's hard to sit on stand by especially with situations such as this. It becomes a heartaching drain!  Sadly, the only option here is to give it time and space. I'd say here and there leave a friendly simple note so that they know u still care. Some may agree, some may disagree. Hear me out on this and see how u feel about it mentally instead of emotionally. This will also give yourself some time to heal.

My best wishes to you.