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Sudden Breakup

by RJSF, Oct 15, 2009 07:01PM
Together 5 months and fell in love very quickly - got very serious.  She is younger (23), has some serious family issues, and a wilder lifestyle than me. She's tells me how much she loves me, that I'm perfect for her, how happy she finally is, and I treat her better than any other man she's been with.  Everything was peachy until a few days later...

Literally less than a week later she has a blowout with her mom and decides that she needs to be by herself right now and breaks up with me.  In later conversations she stresses that she wishes she were raised differently so she could me with some "as amazing" as me at this point in her life.  She "knows that if we stay together, she will hurt me".  I'm not sure what that means? Says she needs time to sort things out on her own and she doesnt want my help.  Also says that she loves me very much but at this poinst doesnt see us having a future.

This was a total shock to me and now I'm reeling.  We went back and forth a couple of weeks and I mistakenly tried to reason with her.  That didnt work.  Now i'm trying to back off and respect her decision though it's one of the hardest things I have ever had to do.

Any guidance would be helpful here.  Age thing?  Family issues I don't understand? Lying to me and doesnt want to hurt my feelings?  Should I try and move on?

Thank you in advance for the replies.

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