my stress

Well,I've been married in my 16-s with a young boy from a rural village.We had two daughters in our eight year marriage.But after 8 years we divorced from many troubles that we had.But I cannot take the daughters to t ake care of them because I wasnt in good economic situation,so they left with their father.Soon he married with another woman and had a SON.I know that my daughters a ren't feeling well,and they are suffering.But I can;t do anything .I haven't got my own home or apartament ,and salaries are so low here .After two years of my marriage I knew I boy and felt in love with him.But he was married and have three children.Im pregnant  with him now  but he is still with his wife.I dont know if he loves me or her.He can never be  s o fair to  me.bUT HE NEVER SPEAKS TO DIVORCE WITH HER AND HE SAY HE LOVES ME ALL THE TIME.I m so confused now.I dont know what is in his mind.I dont know what to do

[mami1323]

I think your first mistake was getting involved with a man that was already married, your second mistake was getting pregnant with his child and your third mistake was thinking that he would ever leave his wife for you.  I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but I have no sympathy for someone who willingly gets involved with a man who is not available.  Just because he says these things doesn't mean that it's how he feels and if he loves you so much then why hasn't he left his wife?  It's because he loves her more and the relationship with you is not worth leaving her for.  I think the best thing you can do is move on with your life.  Raise that child that you are pregnant with on your own.  If he chooses to help you financially, great, but don't expect anything more than that from him.  Next time find a man who doesn't have a family.  

[portuguese mom]

Don't get involved with married man.  You should give the child up for adoption to a two parent family, unless this man can help you financially.  You also need to be involved in your daughters life.