Yes, I agree with all previous comments. My Jack Russell had steroid shots on the 10th and became lethargic. Followups to vets revealed little on physical exam. We loved on him until yesterday when he began to have seizures and was disoriented walking around with no clear destination. It was obviously painful and we put him to sleep last night. That progression was just eleven days to give you some idea. Be thankful that you have the time to say goodbye and prepare...
I love that! The childrens' pictures.....
I did that with my last dog, and there was a special sacredness somehow about that last week of his life. The time seemed to stretch out and was very special, and not unpleasant. I told a little girl who asked me why I was carrying him one day...."He's not very well, and will have to die and go to Heaven soon, but he's having a happy time"
"Maybe the fairies will go with him" she said.
Yes, maybe they will, I said, and painted a picture of "The Faerie People with Toby"
It all helped somehow.
And I am sure that she will be at home when her time comes. Or if you feel she is taking a bad turn for the worse, call the vet out, so she will just go to sleep with all her family around her, in her own special place. I did that with my Toby.
Thank you for your words - we continue to watch her - I can't believe she has held on this long - and continues to be lethargic. We are making a point of staying with her as moch as possible, and my children have taken to drawing her pictures in hopes to make the change easier. Though she is up walking again, it is brief. We have taken a lot of time to think about exactly what you said - quality of life etc., and as we cannot see obvious discomfort or pain in her, we are hoping that Nature will take its course, and that she might be home when the time comes. Thanks again.
I also agree with margot and ginger. And would like to add that your dog's quality of life is the thing to look at. Basically, is she happy? Does she appear to be having a good time mostly? If the answers to these questions is no, then it is time to give her the last and most loving thing gift you can... take her to your vet and let them put her gently to sleep. My heart goes out to you.
Lasix is a diuretic isn't it? It makes sense that if she is being given a diuretic (to prevent fluid build-up on her lungs etc) it will make her pee a lot more. This, plus her general weakness right now is most likely why she wet herself.
I'm afraid I don't know a lot about heart failure in dogs, the prognosis, and all the possible treatments. It would be an option for you to consult a couple of different vets perhaps, to see if there are any other treatments which may help her?
If she really is suffering, and there is no treatment which can be offered at all, -if it gets to the point when no "management" of her condition is possible anymore.....then Margot has given you some wonderful advice.
Hugs from me too.
That is only a decision you can make. If she does not seem to be in pain, struggling for breath, etc, you may want to let Nature take it's course.
On the other hand, you have the option of choosing a time that would be right for you and for Happy.
I have made these difficult decisions in the past and, when I saw the dog was going down hill, knew there was no chance of a better quality of life for the animal, I chose the time. I was able to provide a quiet atmosphere and hold my beloved pet and I feel that was some comfort to them and to me.
My heart goes out to you. It is heartbreaking but often this is truly the last act of love we can do for our pets.
Hugs to you.