The first thing I will tell you is to go see an ENT, because it sounds like you have a pervasive sinus infection. If you have low funding or no intention of seeing a doctor, there is a cure available, if you wish to take a risk.
It's normal for one nostril to be closed off at a time. In fact,that is a mechanism for a normal nose to clean itself. However, the Afrin has made yours extreme.
Hypertonic saline will shrink your turbinates (the things that close off your nostril) and wash out the infection from your sinuses. Here is the manual on how to do it.
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/2322
Here are some special warnings for you. The popping sound in your ears is because the infection is going into your Eustachian tubes. If you choose to do a Flip-Turn Sinus Flush, make absolutely sure you do not twist your head to the side during the procedure.
More importantly, do not blow your nose very hard, if at all, or do it very very very gently, and always with one nostril untouched. Take some decongestants, like Sudofed, plus Mucinex to dry up your head in between flushes, and do not eat dairy products or white-flour products until your head clears. Oh, and quickly wean yourself from the Afrin.
After each sinus flush, lay on a bed with each ear up, and blow up a balloon to drain your ears.
Good luck
friggy