doc says she fine, does not have tonsillitis, but she has had this now for 7 days, doesn't seem to be getting any better. i am very worried. doc said just swollen glands nothing else. she does not have temperature, or any other symptoms of anything.
Just based upon what you are saying, there probably isn't much need to be too anxious. She has no symptoms and this has only been going on for a week. Kids get swelling in the glands quite commonly -- they are always being subjected to new pathogens. This should resolve in a few weeks.