Should I just let it go or just do what I want?

[Libby2999]

So I know you're probly thinking, "do what you want to do," but what I want to do is not eat and loose weight. I'm trying to loose weight a healthy way but it seams that isn't working sence I eat at every chance I get cuz I'm so stressed and I hate how people say things about my eating habits. It annoys the crap out of me! So my choices are

-do what I want and just don't eat
-keep loosing weight a healthy way but risk eating ONLY junk food (even if I'm in the calories range)
-let it go and let myself get fat

I know that people WANT me to get fat cuz it'll make them feel better about themselves and I hate it but maybe if I do just do that they'll shut up about my eating. You know how talking about weight can make a overweight person feel unconfortable but most people don't get is talking about weight will also make underweight people feel unconfortable. Even if it's not detected tourds them it can feel like it is.

[Bran_Bran]

For one you are not under weight and you aren't over weight either you are a perfect weight for your height and please oh please DO NOT starve your self it will only slow your matabalizm down and make you gain weight in the long run!!! That's what stoped memfrom starving myself and also think you can't dtarv yourself for ever you will not be able to love with out food. I'd say try to cut back the junk food and replace it with healthy food think maby cucumber and dip instead of chips or cellery it burns more calleries then it gives. And try drinking water you can litterly pee your weight off if you drink enouph that's what Tyra Banks did.

But really yoU don't need to lose weight at all I wish I were as skinny as you but we just have to learn that everyone has different bodys and your not over weight today's expectations of skinny is under weight and I know I'm being a hypracut because I hate my body to mostly my stumic and I am willing to go u der weight to get myself a flat stumic but please do listion to me.

I may have never met you but truley sound like a beautiful girl inside and out try consentrating on what's on the I side as cornet as that sounds.
And everytime you find your self try pointing out at least 10 things good about your self or at least one good thing or if your really down and can't think of anything try and put on some music to distract yourself or some relatible music. Music is what jas kept me alive. Or just watch YouTube a show or do anything just anything that distracts you from yourself maby the and plan your futur anthing just Ty and distract yourself. I'm rooting for you and will be praying for you I hope you can get threw this I have so much to say to you but it will take hours lol so I'll stop now lol I hope you get threw this you are truley beautiful inside and out!!!!!! :)

[Libby2999]

I know I'm kinda messed up. I'm weighting thi the night before my first day of high school and I'm really nervuoise. I already over ate and my stomach hurts so bad and I still got the feeling I need go eat. Not cuz I need food I just need the eating thing. I think gum will truely help too. I'll put that on my list; gum.

I know I should try staying the same healthy weight but it's so hard and I can't do it. Like I can never get the just right, always too much or too little.

I'm scard of the scale too. It's telling me I'm gaining weight fast so I'm freaking out about that too. I weigh about 120 and I'm 5'5" actually my friend says I'm underweight still but she's 115 and 5'6" so if I'm underweight she's more underweight and I hate that I need to weigh atleast 15 more than her to be "healthy" I just don't want to be the fat one any more!

[Libby2999]

So yes I posted that and now I'm posting again. Lolz weird anyways

I have no idea what to do cuz I can't maintain my weight. I'm 14 and always been going up or down. Never do I stay the sane for long. I also don't want to not eat cuz I think if swimming and that's the one thing I want to be good at. I think I'm going to loose weight but slowly, and as soon as swimming ends I'll not eat.