anytime, i try to be helpful to others. when i had tons of questions others were very helpful to me. it helps to get through things.
Thank you so much Anniebaby for your suggesstions and comments it really helps hearing from other people and what they would do.
Thanks again!!!
research has shown that a lap surgery does not increase your chances of conceiving by IVF, a lap does increase your chances of conceiving naturally though. so, you have to decide- if your pain in unbearable- i would go ahead and do a lap. if the pain is bearable- i would try ivf- get pregnant- God willing, then get a lap to remove the endo. the IVF drugs will stimulate the endo to grow so most likely the endo will be worse after you have a baby. women with endo have a good chance of conceiving with ivf if other options dont work. i would try to see if there is something that can be done to correct your husbands issues because this may be the reason why you cant get pregnant. if it is easily treated, you may be able to conceive naturally.