Can ED be cured?

[Laura1980]

I keep trying to find support in my problem.
I feel I will go crazy. For more than 4 years my husband suffers from ED. I tried to understand him, tried everything possible to make everything relaxing. Nothing worked. The doctors did not work for him either. The meds don't always work. As much I tell him how I feel, he never does anything for our relation. I told him to try to make m feel good sometmes also, but he doesn't. I feel unloved, ugly. I can't smile anymore and I'm angry all the time.
He says he loves me, but I don't feel that way.
When exaclt a man get over and fix the problem and HOW? His doctor gave him meds, but just a few. What he is supposed to do now? Ask for more? Ofcours he even doesn't use them that often. Maybe once a month and even then I have to ask him....I'm so tired....I need help or I go crazy with him. It's been too long since he has the problem and nothing seems to work. I'm thinking about leaving him also...everyday.
Any advices? Someone out there ..how you deal with? How should I?

[lobodiablo]

if he's a good man don't leave him. it's not you. it is a very real physical problem. ican assure you it bothers him more than you know. i have a beautiful wife who i deeply love and she feels unattractive as well. what to do? i don't know,however it's no different  than if you had a physical problem. what if you'r breasts had to be removed do to cancer. would you want him to leave you? things happen in life to  people. isnt that why we get married? to have a life partner thru thick and thin? either you love him with all your soul or you don't.