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579705 tn?1276776649

Ejaculates too quickly

Hi there, me and my fiance have been together for 5years now and have recently got engaged, we are very much in love with each other and wouldnt change anything. the only problem is that when we have intercourse it never last more than a few minutes because he ejaculates far too quickly. it doesnt take much to excite him either. is there anything that can stop him "cumming" too quick.

thanks x
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This is a common situation for men, as women turn us on, and it's very difficult to stop a flood, if you know what I mean.  Perhaps he could orally stimulate you and then begin intercourse once you have been initially satisfied.  Also, greatly increase the time devoted to foreplay which is enjoyable in its own right.  Quite often foreplay becomes THE play, because the build-up to a climax, whether it happens in the end by means of intercourse or some other way, can be very pleasurable.  
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579705 tn?1276776649
but wat if after he ejaculates he cant "get it up" again?
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they say to have them practice pulling out and learning how to hold it in!! they also say to let them ejaculate several times on there own so when they have sex it will last longer.  also if they practice on their own they can learn to hold it and stop then keep going until they get use to controlling it!!  i keep telling my boyfriend to do this but i swear he has a problem with playing with himself!!!
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