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Erectile Dysfunction or Other

Hello, I am a young male in need of serious help or guidance as to what my issue is and if there are any possible cures.

I am currently coming to notice that I have an erection that points downwards and falls (failing to erect up). I know the exact reason for this was due to misguidance and my mistake of masterbating (masturbating) while lying on my stomach since a child. Since - I still acheived stiffening and could ejaculate I never noticed that I may have damanged my own penis.

I noticed that this was a major problem when I turned 18 as I came across what an erection really looks like.

I recently visited the Urologist who spoke to me for a few moments and entirely disregarded my case, saying that he will not be able to help me with the shape, or droppiness.

I am assuming that my penis does not trap enough blood, and or I may have broken, shaped my ligaments and thus it no longer erects out or upwards.

Is there even a cure? Am I in big trouble? or will this stick with me regardless of following any treatment?

I don't want a life of misery or low-self esteem ahead and I'd like to know if there is even a way to help me.

Thanks to anyone who understands my concerns and aims to respond with intelligent and guiding responses.

Help!
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Some guys have erections that point downwards and it's COMPLETELY normal.  Some have ones that stick straight up to their belly buttons, some hand straight out, and some point straight down.  If everything is working correctly, i.e. there is no pain, you can still get stiff, still have intercourse even if you need to adjust the angle a bit, and can ejaculate, I think you're perfectly fine.  As far as I know, there's no way to change it, just like there's no way to change a curved penis (which is also a natural variation).

I'm guessing the only other erections you've seen have been in porn.  Don't believe everything you see there.  As a woman with multiple past partners, I can tell you that porn dicks are not at all representative, just like porn bodies (male and female) and porn vulvas are not representative.  And some guys (and girls) like to masturbate prone, and as long as it isn't causing pain, it's fine.  I would avoid doing it on hard surfaces, though.  

If it's still really bothering you, I'd suggest seeing a counselor or therapist of some kind to help you work out the feelings and low self esteem.  But hopefully knowing that downward pointing erections are normal will help with that.
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I beleive so that it may be a fracture or trauma to the region and due to this my penis might be failing to trap and keep the blood in it. Those may be the entire reason why it may not erect or even attempt to push up from the base at all as opposed to just pointing downward.
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Hi Jc, I know this works for guys with penis's theat curve to the right or left, its an exercise called jelqing, and as you say you think your having a blood flow problem then it should help with that as well, yoiu say you may have had a facture, if you had, you would probably have an hour glass penis, but from what you saying I dont thing so.
OK jelqing, for this just google pegym and onthere look for the beginners page, and take it from there, also have aread around, youir find some intresting stuff.
Now when your doing this dont rush or push the progarm, these exercises have rules, so just stick to them or you could end up with ED, and you dont want that.
Good Luck
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Hi Jc, Have you been told about Venous leak, as this could also be your problem. Now if you google cheap home-made c*ck rings, there this guy who did the post, its on an ED site, thinks these are tops, and he gets great erections by using them, have a read see what you think.
The only thing is to go back to your gyno and you need a blood flow test done, if I'm right this will tell him if you have venous leak, there is an operation for it, have a read up on it.
Good Luck
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Dude, gynecologists deal with the FEMALE reproductive system.  Urologists are the ones who deal with males (and occasionally female urinary systems).
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Well Spotted A, go to the front of the class, and get a gold star, 10 out of 10.
Good Luck
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