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Erectile dysfunction at 17
Hello.
I'm a 17 year old student, that got into a serious relationship with a girl same age as me.
She's a bit more experienced than me when it comes to sexual intercourse. I've been with other girls before and had no problem getting erect, but when we tried to get intimate last week, I couldn't get 'rock hard', even though I'm super attracted to her. My penis wasn't flacid but it wasn't fully erect either, it was erect enough to penetrate her, but not enough to give us the full pleasure since it kept falling out (the problem was not in my penis lenght).I feel like I need to mention we were in a rush and I was super nervous about missing my last train. Since then I tried masturbating 2 or 3 times, but again, it seemed like I was not as erect as before. Before the failed intercourse I did not masturbate for around 3 weeks, but had no problems getting fully erect. Is it possible I'm struggling from performance anxiety, or should I really visit and urologist asap?
(Am a smoker and an ocassional drinker, no medications at all)
In advance I'd like to thank you for any usefull tips on what I should do.
P.s. sorry for the clusterf*ck in the informations given.
I'm a 17 year old student, that got into a serious relationship with a girl same age as me.
She's a bit more experienced than me when it comes to sexual intercourse. I've been with other girls before and had no problem getting erect, but when we tried to get intimate last week, I couldn't get 'rock hard', even though I'm super attracted to her. My penis wasn't flacid but it wasn't fully erect either, it was erect enough to penetrate her, but not enough to give us the full pleasure since it kept falling out (the problem was not in my penis lenght).I feel like I need to mention we were in a rush and I was super nervous about missing my last train. Since then I tried masturbating 2 or 3 times, but again, it seemed like I was not as erect as before. Before the failed intercourse I did not masturbate for around 3 weeks, but had no problems getting fully erect. Is it possible I'm struggling from performance anxiety, or should I really visit and urologist asap?
(Am a smoker and an ocassional drinker, no medications at all)
In advance I'd like to thank you for any usefull tips on what I should do.
P.s. sorry for the clusterf*ck in the informations given.
Assuming all the times mentioned were not close together I would rule out performance anxiety, which can cause this, as well as stress. Any type fear can also influence this. If you can rule this out as well, I suggest you make the appointment with an Urologist.
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What is close together, last time I had sexual intercourse was June 2016. And I mean I didnt fear anything except letting her down since she has a bit more experience, which got ruled out when she climaxed (atleast I think I got rid of it..)
Right, so if this started in June and you are still having this issue, make the appointment it has to be something other than anxiety or fear.
Sorry for not writing it clear, this problem occured about two weeks ago, the last intercourse before this one was in june 2016
Okay,, when you masturbated did you perhaps worry that you might not please her later?
Can you pin point any part of these sexual occurrences that was the same in all... as in you had alcohol before each, or anything at all that was the same?
You said you are not on medication but did you happen to have taken an OTC item? Do you have any other issues going on? Have you introduced anything new into your life prior to this?
If all these answers are NO,,, make the appointment.
Can you pin point any part of these sexual occurrences that was the same in all... as in you had alcohol before each, or anything at all that was the same?
You said you are not on medication but did you happen to have taken an OTC item? Do you have any other issues going on? Have you introduced anything new into your life prior to this?
If all these answers are NO,,, make the appointment.
Wait, let me expand on one of these. Have you started watching porn and thus use porn to masturbate?
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