Erectile problems for teen

[nguyennnn]

Okay i am 17 years old. recently my girlfriend and i are were about to have sex for the first time, were both virgins.  As we are kissing and stuff, i get hard. And as we are about to have sex, my penis goes back to normal.  this happens throughout the time. like the hardness comes and goes. one minute i am really hard and the next i lose all hardness. this has just been recently happening too. before i am able to keep hardness the whole time when we are just fooling around. Also i have been drinking and doing ectasy in the week this has occured. i just want to know if its me or maybe im thinking too much? and if there are any serious problems with me?

and also i have been shaving the area above my penis and these red little pimples have been showing up. a few of them have whiteheads and the rest are just plain red. i wanna know what they are and if its serious. thank you.

[Ash Tewari, MD, M.Ch.]

Hello Sir,

The first and most important thing to tell you is that is using controlled substances at any age can be detrimental to your health. Using ecstasy can cause many virulent conditions, including malignant hyperthermia (very high body temperatures) especially if performing any vigorous activity including exercise or sexual activity. It is likely that since this is your first experience with sexual intercourse that it is not physiologic in nature. It seems as though this is more psychogenic in nature, having nervous feelings before intercourse are natural, and will abate in time. As you become more familiar with the arousal process, you will become more confident. Also stop using drugs in conjuction with sexual activity, it is more appropriate to perform sober, you will have less problems as well.

The rash on "above your penis" is likely secondary to skin irritation from shaving. The more appropriate action would be to cut the hair at the base using clippers. Let some  of the hair grow out then cut it at the base, shaving creates a higher probability of infections (whiteheads) which will become abscesses.

Thanks!

[nguyennnn]

i would also  like to say that this has happened before i did the ectasy that week.

[spol555]

Hi

Teenage erectile dysfunction is normal. Don't panic. If you go soft during the love making session or find it difficult maintain hard erection, you should adopt the natural psychological mindset. Take regular exercises like power walking and sit ups daily for at least 15 minutes a day. You can also learn some highly effective by visiting here http://www.harderectionregained.com These exercises are specially tailored to improve the blood flow and energy level around the male genital organs and nautrally produce very hard erection and remove teenage erectile dysfunction in a few days.
Moreover, pay special attention to you diet. A balanced diet will help you gain stronger erection coupled with the above exercises meant to deal with your teenage erectile dysfunction.

[jeffturner]

Hey i read this post and i think this will help me regarding erectile dysfunction.can You please tell me the main causes for ED at teenage. Is it due to excessive use of alcohol and habit of chain smoking. I am really scared as am baldly into it and feel this will effects me, i started using pills and feel these drugs helping me . Pls Suggest me the remedies?
Thanks
Jeff Turner

[DerekH]

One of the things that causes it a lot for anyone is stress.  Whether you're thinking about it too much or you're going through tests or problems at work stress can cause fluctuations.  Also the drugs can do it too, particularly ecstasy. Try having sex sober, it will help you a lot.  Also, in terms of shaving, you're probably irritating the skin by shaving too close.  Are you using any kind of shaving cream or gel or just shaving with or without water?  It's probably best just to use a trimmer to get close, but not all the way down.  You don't need to worry that much about it looking perfect, you're not a porn star, as much as you may think or want to be.

[JointHealth]

Performance anxiety...  Try a soft rubber cockring to help maintain the erection until your performance anxiety subsides

[ryanslough22]

Hi i am an 18 year old and have been having trouble getting an erection for over a year and a half. i can only keep an erection for a very short time during masturbation and when i am about to have sexual intercourse. This is making me really depressed and i've stopped even talking to girls or trying to find a girlfriend.

[donny6]

hey  

im still 16 and still a virgin, but recently have been having oral sex and either i wont ejaculate and once my penis didnt get hard even as it was happening.  this is embarising and uncomfortable.  Is there anything wrong with me. should i go to the doctors

[bc88]

i am a 20 year old kid and jsut recently i have gotten  a new girlfriend and when we are about to  have sex im not ready anymore. before sex and whenever im not with her i can get it up, but just when im with her i cant. how can i fix this???

[canadaguy89]

I am 17 years old and often suffer from erectile dysfunction also. I am not a virgin. I've been wih 4 different girls. and this has been an ongoing problem with all four. I don't know what to try anymore. I can't stay hard.. and if I can.. I can't last long enough.. any suggestions?

[3cento86]

@bc88
@canadaguy89

pretty much similar problem here...anyone found something that REALLY work??!

[jimbojemi]

Hi, Im 19 and I have recently found it difficult to get a solid erection. I have only had sex once. Erm. Well ive now got another Girl friend and im worried im gonna have trouble. I eat healthy, drink very little, and no drugs or smoking. Im thinking its just my nerves because of the new GF, but I was thinking the other day about when I was younger and could get a really solid (throbber lol) erection, and I havent had one like that for months. I dont know what is going on.

Any advice much appreciated.

[j7653]

I am 41.  I grew up with the problems that you all have described.  The erectile dysfunction started with my first experiences and never really got better until I was in my early 20's.  I had many opportunities to be with women and had many bad experiences which left me very angry and resentful.

Please do yourself a favor... get some help so that it doesnt follow you thru life as it did me.  It caused me a great deal of problems, depression, and negative experiences that you dont have to go thru.

If I could wind back the clock, I would get to a psychiatrist for help and get my hands on some viagra or cialis or levetra.

Please consider what I have said very seriously.

[metropolis]

Guys, you are all young and healthy, so there's very little to worry about. Anxiety is probably the cause of your problems, and if so, I'm sure things will improve with time. If the situation persists, don't be ashamed to go see a doctor (urologist). Meanwhile, I suggest you take valerian pills before sex: valerian root is not an ED treatment but it is a mild sedative and could be helpful in cases of sexual performance anxiety.

[bob732]

i got the same problem i ddint but me n my ex ****** alot every day of the week n i smoke ciggs that the problem?

[Wayneskips]

I'm 17 and I no longer have anxiety performance or anything like that. I'm pretty used to sex by now. But when I'm about to enter my girlfriend's vagina, I get a little limp and not hard enough to penetrate and other times, just about hard enough, but again not rock hard. When I'm already inside of her, I slowly start to lose my erection.  I have always used a condom. I don't smoke or drink. I'm very physically fit (play soccer 2 hours a day), and very very healthy. I'm always in the mood for sex and always use a condom.  Yet I don't even get morning erections anymore. I also eat very healthy, and make sure zinc is in my diet.
I masturbate quite a lot (2 times a day, minimum). If i ever stopped doing it, i would ejaculate 30 seconds into sex, and that would be whole different problem itself.
Are there any natural spices or anything recommended to increase circulation if that's the issue?
Please stop telling us teenagers to go see a doctor. WE'RE TEENAGERS. Most of us need our parent's consent. Where should i go to seek help? Dont tell me i should wait to have sex either cause if  don't tackle this problem now, its gonna get worse when I'm an adult. I'm not gonna take viagra either. First of all, I'm 17!!! Where the heck am i gonna find some?  Second, I  don't want to depend on it, its really expensive. I thought sex was supposed to be one of nature's free gifts?

I just want my rock hard erections back, when I masturbate and have sex.

[metropolis]

«Are there any natural spices or anything recommended to increase circulation if that's the issue?
Please stop telling us teenagers to go see a doctor. WE'RE TEENAGERS.»

Two things:

a) Natural antioxidants (vitamin E, pycnogenol, pomegranate juice) improve blood circulation and can do wonders for your sex life.

b) Teenagers can/should go see a doctor, just like anyone else.

[beenthere3000]

I had this problem as a teen (19) but it was not a physical problem it was a mental problem.  i would get so worked up about sex that instead of being horny I would panic (and im a dude go figure i felt like such a ***** with my **** being all shriveled and receded cuz of the anxiousness). anyways after 4 months of trying almost DAILY i finally got relaxed one day and finally got laid and been screwing ever since.   Not to mention how embarrassing it is to me that theres a girl out there that probably tells this story frequently to friends and boyfriends (4 months of this ******** guys maybe even 6 i cant remember to clearly but it did take me a while).  anyways the girl fell in love with me but i dumped her after a year of tearing the ***** up because i wanted more women i was not gonna go down as a one girl type of guy (now im like at about 50 something women in like 8 years) not bragging but just to emphasize how ridiculous i would react when i first took the plunge).  My advice if you are like i used to be (scared to perform, thinking what if she figures i dont know what im doing, highly anxious) rent a room and get an escort that doesn't know you, do this as many times as it takes till you get used to fu#####g, she wont care if u dont perform all she wants is the money and will soon forget you, just say you were doing cocaine earlier and thats why u cant get hard "give me like fifteen minutes and play with my d##k again" and just conversate meanwhile to relax.  Pick different fine ones with a big *** and good **** to help out, keep thinking wow im doing it with a complete stranger doesn't matter what happens. AND WEAR PROTECTION AND USE KY JELLY with nonoxyl 9 AND YOU SHOULD BE FINE. I know some will not agree with this method but dude i lived it and wish i took this route. then when your ready call back all the escorts you couldnt f##k and F##k them.

[metropolis]

«I know some will not agree with this method but dude i lived it and wish i took this route. then when your ready call back all the escorts you couldnt f##k and F##k them»

:) Not the wisest thing ever posted here, but you do have a point: once you get more relaxed and used to sex, things will improve.