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Erection concerns & Small penis
hi, im jan
i had gonorreha 12 years ago, now im 32 years old. after gonorreha i have problem of night fall 3 times a week, i did mastarbution also too much ,now i feel too much weak body, weak erection, and penis size is also decrease. testical aslo become small, i feel testical pain if i dont mastarbution or sex once a week. my sex time is also very little 1 minute or 2 minute i discharge, im not happy with my sex. plz help me. i want marraige now.
do i impotent or i have very serious problem with my sex. can i m able to marriage ?
thank u for reading my problems. plz reply me im too much wory.
i had gonorreha 12 years ago, now im 32 years old. after gonorreha i have problem of night fall 3 times a week, i did mastarbution also too much ,now i feel too much weak body, weak erection, and penis size is also decrease. testical aslo become small, i feel testical pain if i dont mastarbution or sex once a week. my sex time is also very little 1 minute or 2 minute i discharge, im not happy with my sex. plz help me. i want marraige now.
do i impotent or i have very serious problem with my sex. can i m able to marriage ?
thank u for reading my problems. plz reply me im too much wory.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
I’m not sure I understand what you’ve written. I don’t know what “night fall” is, so I can’t comment on that, but it sounds to me like you have accepted lots of inaccurate myths as facts and that you’re under the impression that masturbation, or self-pleasuring, is somehow harmful or can be done “too much.”
Almost everyone feels insecure about self-pleasuring. We all want to know that what WE do is OK. Well, I’m here to tell you that whatever works for you is what works for you, and please stop worrying and enjoy your life.
I understand you have concerns about your penis size. Most men’s penises are in the 4” to 6” range, and yet many worry that their size is somehow inadequate.
It sounds like you’ve bought into the myth that you have to have a larger-than-life penis in order to have great sex. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth.
Our society does a terrible disservice to men by raising them to think that their penis has to be 10 inches long, hard as a rock and last all night. It’s no wonder that many men feel insecure about their penis. Locker room etiquette dictates no staring, so most straight men have only glimpsed other penis sizes and shapes in commercial sex videos, which generally feature men with large penises. If you think everyone else looks like a male porn star, of course you’re going to feel inadequate!
Another contributing factor to this attitude is that while most men see their penises several times a day during urination, they’re usually staring down at their penis, creating a visual distortion that actually makes it appear smaller than it really is.
Like noses, penises all have the same basic shape, with some variation. Let’s consider a few basic facts. For instance, did you know that you can’t tell the size of a man’s erect penis based simply on what it looks like when flaccid (un-erect)? Most penises erect to between 4 and 6 inches, and there’s not much variation in erection size (with exceptions, of course). However, when flaccid, there is much more variation. Some men’s penises are 1 inch when flaccid (we’ll call these growers), and others are 5 inches (we’ll call these show-ers). BUT: during erection, the 1-inch penis may grow to the same 6-inch erect size as the 5-incher. That’s right; despite their differences when flaccid, they’ll both erect to approximately the same size. Why don’t most of us realize this? Because most of us just don’t get the opportunity to see men when they’re flaccid and then erect. And did I mention shrinkage? When men are cold or nervous, the penis and testicles pull up into the body for protection (“I’m hiding!”). If you see a penis right after it’s been in a cold swimming pool, I guarantee it will not resemble its erect self in any way!
If you’re having pain in your testicles and you’re worried, do get a check-up. No one can tell you what’s going on without examining them.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you, other than that you’ve worried yourself into a condition where you’re so anxious that now you can’t enjoy yourself. Why not relax, value your penis for the size and shape it is, and be thoughtful about its care and handling. If you do, it will serve you well your whole life. Best of luck. Dr. J
Almost everyone feels insecure about self-pleasuring. We all want to know that what WE do is OK. Well, I’m here to tell you that whatever works for you is what works for you, and please stop worrying and enjoy your life.
I understand you have concerns about your penis size. Most men’s penises are in the 4” to 6” range, and yet many worry that their size is somehow inadequate.
It sounds like you’ve bought into the myth that you have to have a larger-than-life penis in order to have great sex. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth.
Our society does a terrible disservice to men by raising them to think that their penis has to be 10 inches long, hard as a rock and last all night. It’s no wonder that many men feel insecure about their penis. Locker room etiquette dictates no staring, so most straight men have only glimpsed other penis sizes and shapes in commercial sex videos, which generally feature men with large penises. If you think everyone else looks like a male porn star, of course you’re going to feel inadequate!
Another contributing factor to this attitude is that while most men see their penises several times a day during urination, they’re usually staring down at their penis, creating a visual distortion that actually makes it appear smaller than it really is.
Like noses, penises all have the same basic shape, with some variation. Let’s consider a few basic facts. For instance, did you know that you can’t tell the size of a man’s erect penis based simply on what it looks like when flaccid (un-erect)? Most penises erect to between 4 and 6 inches, and there’s not much variation in erection size (with exceptions, of course). However, when flaccid, there is much more variation. Some men’s penises are 1 inch when flaccid (we’ll call these growers), and others are 5 inches (we’ll call these show-ers). BUT: during erection, the 1-inch penis may grow to the same 6-inch erect size as the 5-incher. That’s right; despite their differences when flaccid, they’ll both erect to approximately the same size. Why don’t most of us realize this? Because most of us just don’t get the opportunity to see men when they’re flaccid and then erect. And did I mention shrinkage? When men are cold or nervous, the penis and testicles pull up into the body for protection (“I’m hiding!”). If you see a penis right after it’s been in a cold swimming pool, I guarantee it will not resemble its erect self in any way!
If you’re having pain in your testicles and you’re worried, do get a check-up. No one can tell you what’s going on without examining them.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you, other than that you’ve worried yourself into a condition where you’re so anxious that now you can’t enjoy yourself. Why not relax, value your penis for the size and shape it is, and be thoughtful about its care and handling. If you do, it will serve you well your whole life. Best of luck. Dr. J
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hi Jan.
You're most welcome. Please know that sleep orgasms are in no way harmful. Most people have them at various times in their lives, and they don't cause fatique or weakness. What CAN cause problems, is fear and ignorance about your body. There's an excellent book that I recommend to all men. It will give you lots of helpful information about your body and your sexuality. It's called "The New Male Sexuality," by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D., widely available online, both used and in paperback. Good luck! Dr. J
You're most welcome. Please know that sleep orgasms are in no way harmful. Most people have them at various times in their lives, and they don't cause fatique or weakness. What CAN cause problems, is fear and ignorance about your body. There's an excellent book that I recommend to all men. It will give you lots of helpful information about your body and your sexuality. It's called "The New Male Sexuality," by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D., widely available online, both used and in paperback. Good luck! Dr. J
im happy from ur answer, thank u so much.
night falling means, during sleeping i see dreams about sex and i too much semins come out. this happend 2 times a week. i feel my body too much tired & weak.
thank u once again
night falling means, during sleeping i see dreams about sex and i too much semins come out. this happend 2 times a week. i feel my body too much tired & weak.
thank u once again
Thank u so much, im glad now, i feel good, first i think i have very big problem, u give me so much confidence. thanks alot.
i will study also this book.
bye
i will study also this book.
bye
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STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
STDs aren't transmitted through clothing. Fabric is a germ barrier.
Normal vaginal discharge varies in color, smell, texture and amount.
